Friends with benefits? I’m so confused?

Anonymous

I’ve been friends with this guy for a long time. It was strictly platonic. Some flirting here and there over the years.
I know I have a good personality as I have a lot of friends but was overweight. we got close a year ago and I told him I liked him.
I really at that time was getting vibes that he liked me too but, He politely rejected me. But was still very nice and kind.
I started to work on myself a year later and I guess he started to notice because he kissed me. And we hooked up and it honestly was like intense for both of us because we knew each other on a deep level.

He asked me how I felt but I was confused because I didn’t know how I felt anymore

I continued to focus on myself and at this time I look like a completely different person. I’m getting attention from more guys that I never had before. He had more confidence around me before but now he is super awkward. Very jealous and hasn’t kissed me or tried anything

im so confused I need help

Friends with benefits? I’m so confused?
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