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This is my situation right now. One job pays an average amount, comes with rent subsidization, and would have us working four days a week, 28 hours total, but is in a city I hate and want to get out of immediately. It is several hours away from the other city by train. This city sucks because all the people are a**holes and there's nothing fun for me to do there, especially with the work schedule which would has us getting off work at 11pm. On the weekends, all I can do is stay at home (even if COVID wasn't a thing) because there's simply no one here and nowhere to go.

The other job pays a little less, but has free rent and housing, and would have us working five days a week, 40 hours total with extra off-hours stuff. But is a city I've always dreamed of living in and would otherwise never be able to get a job in, let alone afford rent there. It is one of the greatest cities in the world that many would love to live in if they could afford it. If I were to ever make friends or a date, it'd be here, and there's lots of things to do on the weekend.

Which would you choose?

To be completely honest here I’m biased toward tanned skinned women. Which is why I’m typically most attracted to mestizo and Asian women.

Then again my preferences could change over time. I used to have a thing for blonde women but that has since faded. I used to have childhood crushes but those have since went away.

I don’t consider it racism. As people change preferences change. Speaking from my own experience here.

And that isn’t to say that someone’s race alone removes them as a dating potential, but rather that their race alone isn’t part of what you considered attractive about them. But who knows maybe they’ll be a day when I find black women the most attractive. Until then I’ll focus on what’s the most important: the individual.