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I know that many people meet in bars and clubs.
By clubs I don't mean grungy ones. Places with good music and atmosphere.

Also hear that a lot of single women will go there with the specific intention of meeting guys and being approached by them.

I for one think most (single women at bars, are creeped out by guys approaching them, and are immediately defensive. So I don't approach at all.

How many of you do this and are willing to have guys (decent ones, not drunk idiots) approach and talk to you, who may want to meet you in a way that can possibly lead to a date?

Feminism has turned Western straight white men into weaklings, who are bitter and whiny and often can’t even approach a girl. Even if they do approach a girl, they’re so scared of their own shadow that they can’t bring themselves to be truly charming and flirty. There’s not enough effective brainwashing even in the feminist utopia of Sweden to get women to like feminized men: "In this new world of the sexes, some women complain that Swedish men are too politically correct even to flirt in a bar" link . Because of this weakness, they’re also falling behind in their careers, making them even less independent and even less attractive.

Feminism has turned Western straight white women into demanding and aggressive harpies, who want sexual equality where sexual equality would benefit women and sexual inequality (euphemistically labelled as ‘choice’ or ‘chivalry’) where sexual inequality benefits women. They’ve lost the femininity in their personalities, and so they rely exclusively on the femininity in their bodies, and yet, bizarrely, they’re surprised and angered that so many men want them only for their bodies these days!

I've seen questions where the topic of approaching women at the gym comes up and a lot of girls say they would be annoyed if a guy tried to talk to her when she's at the gym. I'm not talking about when she's in the middle of a set, but maybe when she's walking around or inbetween sets.

My question is why? What's so bad about a guy getting to know you at the gym? Would you rather a guy approaches you at the bar or club where it's more "accepted"? You know that those guys only want one thing... What's so wrong about a guy at the gym, who is showing that he is more concerned about being healthy than getting wasted at some club. A guy who is looking for a girl that is into fitness, not partying. Why would these girls want to separate themselves from a guy who may sweep her off her feet?

I'll throw a poll on here as well. Would you like to be approached by a guy at the gym?