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So my roommate at first said it was cool that I have my boyfriend over all the time, but now she wants me to text her every time I have someone over. Like every single time. I told her I'm not going to do that and that she doesn't have to warn me if people are here. Like, we live in the dorms. If you don't want to be with other people you can go to the study lounge or something or if you're really tired or something I told her that she could just ask me to GTFO for a while.

Would you expect someone to tell you every time you had someone over? I think she means just my boyfriend, but it isn't like she's walking in on us. I tell her when we need alone time (for sex) but sometimes my boyfriend and I just want to watch a movie (he also lives in the dorms, but he's on the top bunk and the top of the hill so we don't stay in his room as much). I told her he won't be spending the night or anything but she said she doesn't know him so it's awkward. Yeah, that's college. We're roommates, not besties. My boyfriend's roommate has invited his girlfriend to sleep over three times already (we moved in a week ago) on school nights, sleeping on the bed under him. *That* is awkward. I think she needs to deal.

What is your opinion on this? I'm not going to start asking permission to have people over during the day (we live in the dorms, you can just walk into someone's room) but I'm not going to go out of my way to be a d***.

As a note, she is a freshman and this is my second year here.

Im pretty upset . My boyfriend (after we had just finished having sex out of the blue told me he needed some time. (guys that's the worst time to say something like that) and we took some time off he said our relationship was the same rutin and it was kinda boring he didn't want to come see me anymore . We live an hour away and my parents won't let me go visit him even though I'm 23 . They think its not lady like . Sadly I live with them.and I have to obey the rules( going to.college , paying my car etc I don't have any extra money to afford a place. He asked me to move in.with him after he said all that and I said no . I told him I wanted to get married first . plus we were already planning it about a year ago.. Two weeks after he decided he needed me that I was the women he wanted to spend the rest of his life . Everything was good but a week later he decides to ho out to the movies with another girl . She posted on Facebook and its not the first time they gone out . If he wants to hang out with other people that's fine but for him not telling me upsets me . Especially when its a girl I dislike ! We were texting each other that night and he ended up ignoring me . Second issue I also found out he has a 2 Facebook profile and all the friends he has are females with little clothes on . One of the girls uses his photo as a cover for her Facebook profile . (asked him about it and he said his using it to make her boyfriend jealous and that that profile is used by his 17 year old nephew to talk to his girlfriend . Hahah why doesn't it have a picture of his newphew?) Third issue sometimes he posts video on his real Facebook profile of strippers . I wouldn't say anything until last night he posted one of a playboy model dancing samba but this time she takes everything off . I understand his a guy and a lot of guys watch these but why post them on Facebook ? Especially when his friends with my family members and my best friends . I find it disrespectful and I sent him a message saying what a trashy. What should I do? Fight for this relationship or forget about ? We just hit are 2year anniversary and I love him but all this hurts my feelings