Search Results: commitment issues

Why is he behaving this way?

Best friends with a guy for a few years. He then kissed me. We started seeing each other for about 5 months when he decided to go back to been friends (bit out of the blue, he said he had been lying about how he felt)....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why on earth is he doing this? Is it usual?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Boyfriend of nearly 4 months hasn't contacted me in 3 days. This is completely out of character. he's never even gone 2 days! Is he about to leave me?

We've been together almost 4 months now. He never had any qualms w/ commitment. We were exclusive from the start and never even had to have the DTR talk. He just started calling me his girlfriend after a month. By 2.5...

SiriusA1V

Xper 4 Age: 45

Girl's Behavior

Keep fighting or give up?

I like this girl, we have been talking for a while now... I told her she’s the one I want to be with and I’d do everything for her. She said: “you’re too good for me” which raised a red flag immediatly. I know this often...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do men realize that women don't find this attractive?

Dear men, Us women do not want to deal with your immaturity. I do not want your friends and family sizing me up and interrogating me to see if I 'deserve you'. If a man or his family ever does this to me, I will...

Angeliica

Xper 2 Age: 26

How soon should I tell this girl I have deep rooted commitment issues after 2 friends of mine committed suicide over a breakup?

I have had my old college roommate commit suicide after his girlfriend broke up with him and dated his friend. I have also had a HS teammate do the same. It has awlays bothered me that I wasn't around them when they made...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ex boyfriend wished me a happy birthday after almost a year of no contact?

To cut a long story short, my ex wished me a happy birthday after 10 months of no contact. We had a very complicated situation where we were exclusive friends with benefits ( we both had commitment issues at that time,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can someone help me figure out what he wants and how I feel (guys and girls please)?

I met this guy in January and we are good friends. He is a little older than me (19/26) and i did like him a bit at first but only viewed him as a friend. A few months ago he told me that he likes me and wants to ask me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I dump him or give him another chance?

I have borderline commitment issues and have a really hard time getting past the 4th date. Like clockwork the 4th date and everything the guy does annoys me. I thought about giving him a second chance to see if I just...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you believe when someone shows signs of loving you and simultaneously not loving you?

He doesn't make me feel like a priority, but always tells me he loves me and never said otherwise. He introduced me to his family and seems proud to show me off to them, but he doesn't text me or call me back for days and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fling or something bigger?

Hello there. In past few months, I’ve met a guy who’s significantly older than me (20+ years, don’t judge - I’m not here for it). The thing is kind of delicate. We’ve met on a dating app and since I’m a virgin, we just...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Why did he break up with me for seemingly no reason?

he told me had commitment issues but we were in like the best part of our relationship and he ended it out of nowhwre with no explanation he told my friend that he couldnt commit and that he just had issues with himself...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to handle a guy with commitment issues?

Other than dropping them, so please don't put that, I already know that is most likely the best option. But i'm saying if you really love the man, and he has strong feelings too but the commitment issues are very much...

xcookie7x

Xper 4 Age: 33

Why Men Disappear

If someone disappears on you, they'd better stay disappeared. You meet a man, you two have excellent chemistry and everything is going in the right direction. And then... He just disappears from your life! You have...

Desconhecida

Editor Age: 39

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If he "really likes you" he'll be with you no matter what... accurate or myth?

I'm always told if a man really truly is into you he'll be with you no matter what, regardless of the baggage he might have, inner issues and insecurities, etc... is this true or more-so a myth in your opinion? For...

xcookie7x

Xper 4 Age: 33

Am I asking too much of my ex?

I broke up with my ex a year ago. I had commitment issues and wanted him to find real stable love+our relationship was going downhill romantically. He didn't have the best childhood and tried suicide before we met. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I broke up with my ex a year ago. I had commitment issues and wanted him to find real stable love+our relationship was going downhill romantically. He didn't have the best

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Need advice from girls with Borderline Personality Disorder or Guys with partners who have the condition?

I met a girl 4 months ago and it took less than a month before we fell in love with each other, that is 100% solid. But she has Borderline Personality Disorder, has come out of a 10 year abusive relationship and has...

Anonymous

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