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So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now. He tells me he loves me often and will tell me not to leave him, but the past year or so things have been seriously declining and he just doesn't really put much effort into the relationship anymore. He does have a lot of issues going on at home and is dealing with depression but it is seriously running into our relationship and he doesn't feel like doing anything to work on his problems. And if I ever tell him that something he does bothers me, he pretty much ignores what I say and doesn't do anything to change it, and I'm not bothered by insignificant things.. Then yesterday was my birthday and he didn't show up to my house until 4 o clock and he did nothing special to make me feel important. He sent me a pretty basic happy birthday text in the morning but didn't give me a card, flowers, a present, nothing at all. The weird thing is he asked me about a week ago when we were doing presents and I said on the day of my birthday but then it came and he did nothing. I'm just tired of feeling insignificant to him and like I don't matter, especially when I put so much effort into doing nice things for him and trying to make him happy. Should I just cut my losses and break up with him?