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We were friends with benefits and he begged me for a relationship, I was cool with fucking with no strings attached. When I found out I was pregnant I was going to get an abortion but he begged me to keep the baby and claimed to want to be a family. I also found out he was chasing his ex and not over her and lying and telling people I forced a relationship and baby on him and wouldn't let him go. I'm trying to figure out why a man would do this? If he wanted his ex I would've gladly got out the way and aborted the baby. 🤷

As a lawyer, he sounds stupid. He divorced from his cheating, materialistic wife in 2014 and started dating other women.

Fast-forward to 2017-2019
His ex wife would keep looking for him asking for forgiveness, claim she has changed and now wants kids, to get back together, etc. He forgave but didn't love her anymore (only would see her for sex) and continue dating around. Towards the ending of 2018, he got two women pregnant; his ex wife (both got careless and didn't use protection) and an undecided girl that loved someone else. He ended up with 3 kids; 1 boy from his ex wife and 2 twin daughter from the other girl.

When we first started hanging out I told him we could just be friends with benefits. He begged me for 15 days for a relationship and when I found out I was pregnant he didn't want me to get an abortion. He said he wanted to be a family so I kept the baby. But then he was mistreating me during my pregnancy and trying to get back with his ex while I was pregnant by him. Now he resents me and the baby and said I trapped him, like wtf?

His ex and I had our babies three months apart. His ex was pregnant by another man while I was pregnant by him. Her and I talked and I found out he was begging to get back with her while she was pregnant by another man and I was pregnant by him. He also wanted the baby in the beginning and begged me not to get an abortion but now says I tried trapping him and he wishes he didn't get me pregnant. I can't help but to feel used and really low about myself. I have no confidence and wonder what I did to deserve this. If he didn't want me and wanted his ex I could've got the abortion and moved on and found a man who would appreciate me.

My aunt was raised with overprotective parents. They wouldn't even let her sleepover not even with a female friend. She would secretly date her HS sweetheart. Her uncle caught them making out once and made a big scene, dragging her all the way home, yelling about how that's not how young ladies behave, told her parents about it, etc. She got banned from seeing her boyfriend. Her parents were too focused on her waiting till marriage, never drinking nor smoking, that type of upbringing.

Result:
She didn't wait till marriage.
Her HS sweetheart wasn't her first and only boyfriend ever.
She was into parties for a bit as an adult, enjoying the freedom she never had.
She married her 4th boyfriend, a very liberal man.

Liberal/permissive style
She and her husband only had a daughter and she was raised in the liberal manner. She was allowed to go on camping trips and excursions (far from home) with friends, went out on a date at the age of 14 for the first time, didn't have a curfew and at the age of 16 got lectured about safe sex. My aunt didn't want to make the same mistake her family did to her.

Result:
She got pregnant at the age of 18 with her 3rd boyfriend.
Her ex boyfriend still pays child support and is in contact with the child often.
She's now 27, married with another guy and they have 2 kids.
My aunt and her husband thinks they exceeded on her liberalism.

Obviously neither extreme is good but which do you think is worse? Overprotective or very liberal parents?