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abit history of us, tho im letting bygones be bygones. 1 month into the relationship, my boyfriend sort of cheated me but not really. he was calling this girl every single day and lied to me about going to sleep when he was actually calling her. i forgave him after he broke all contact with her, apologized and stuff. we have been together for 6 months. recently, i found out he has been calling this girl daily - for 2 days. a different girl. i asked him for the details and he said its an old friend he's catching up with. he said they didn't talk for a long time so now they are chatting again. the thing is, the first day he called the girl from 6pm-4am (10 hours) and the second day, the moment he woke up to the moment she slept (12pm to 5pm) weird timings as they have time zone differences. should i break up with him because of this. the thing is he knows im sensitive abojt this type of stuff and shldnt he consider the fact that he has a girlfriend and think about my feelings? calling a girl for THAT long for 2 days straight. 2 days ONLY bcos i found out today and confronted him. if i didn't, it wld have went on for I don't know how many days. am i being reasonable to break up with him?

Am I just paranoid after his and I's past and problems or could it be that there's someone else?

I think I am being paranoid after finding out what he done to me seven months ago during our relationship. From cheating on me for two days to hurting my feelings by lying about something that I didn't do that ruined my reputation to many people that knows me. It's hard to forget and forgive someone like that who you thought loves you but still will hurt you. I love him so I forgave him but another lie then I'm seriously done. I'm don't giving him so many chances. He's literally touching that red flag already.

He was the one that called me in the first place after his rehearsal and I thought he should rest first. It's nice of him to call but I always tell him to rest first after rehearsal at least one hour. I really don't mind and I told him I'm not asking him to call me after every classes and rehearsals he had. But when some other girl/friend text him... he suddenly focuses on that person. Before he went to his college, he use to embrace me and give me his attention more often. But since he went to his college that he attends, he's usually on his phone texting other girls and friends. So, I get upset because what's the point of me visiting him 33 miles away to talk to him and hangout. Like, I'm here for a d*mn good reason and he's on his phone. Like, where is your respect and manners. It makes me upset how he have hearts on other girls' contacts and I don't that made me had the thought he was cheating last year but he angrily said "No!" But why would he get angry. I was just asking politely. Which made me more upset is that one of girl best friends was sending hearts to him and he was sending hearts back. :/ He's says that she's just his best friend but... not all best friends are like that... especially...

I think that women are more willing to forgive their SO if they got cheated on and give them another chance, but what do you think and why?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months.
At first he was always kind and always texting me/calling me.
Things changed slowly after.
• One time we were playing games and something happened with the audio where his friends on chat can hear.. he told me to get my ass back on the game rudely.
• When he's drunk and we got into an argument.. he was cursing a storm up because I was asking if he was cheating one me due to things I found. He broke up with me that same night and said I was stressing him out. He came back 3 weeks later.
• He was drunk another time and punched my car window when I said something negative. He threatened to punch the wall too.
• I live alone and he still lives with his parents. I picked him up to come to my home so we can have more privacy.. He keeps saying I live far.. I'm in a bad neighborhood... he didn't like my place and it's boring. But I had all the sam stuff he has in his home? All he does is play computer games and I have 2 computers.
• He's constantly talking to this girl on fb messenger and facebook. I confronted him 3 times about her and he says she has a boyfriend and it's his best friend but I never met her nor has he mentioned her before.
• He hung out with a girl one night thathe had a fling with and apologized. I forgave him because I felt I was being too needy.
• Everytime I do something... he says I'm annoying, yells at me, says I piss him off, says I'm negative..

i care for him and see he has problems and I'm always there for him. I think I'm a bit too comforting but I want to help him. I even helped him study for his permit test that he had to redo due to having a DUI. I went to support him at the DMV and I glanced at his phone.. that same girl keeps popping up. Whenever I asked him about it.. he YELLS and says it's my fault that he didn't pass the DMV test.
I dont understand what I'm doing wrong. I only want good things for him... Am I acting too motherly or something?