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Is there a special reason as to why your single? Some of you guys and girls are very attractive from what I've seen but they stay single. What's the reason? Maybe some of you miss you ex love and haven't manage to get over the break up yet so you won't let anyone in I've gotten over my break up but it was so devastating that I have major trust issues towards females so I won't put myself out there, I just admire beauty from a far or as it passes me by. Some of you have low self esteem and don't think your atrractive to any guy or girl in the world, (your dead wrong If you've ever thought that non sense. Maybe some of you are single cuz you don't like the responsibilities a relationship brings and you just like playin the game instead of finding a partner. I'm sure some of you have your own personal reasons, I'd love for you to share some of them with me please? Personslly I'm just afraid of being hurt ever again like that because it damn there drove me insaneand I never want another woman to have that kind of power over my mind again! I'll put up a vote pole but if you wnna share I'd love that part to 😊

It seems like girls are attracted to guys who sleep around. Is it just the fact that the guys who successfully sleep with lots of girls are attractive, or is it that the sleeping around makes him attractive? I mean, does it give you the impression that you got the guy that every other girl wanted? Is that it? I've only had sex with one girl and she left me. The girl I really liked earlier this year, started dating a player type. I don't really have a problem with it, that's her decision. But she seemed so flattered that he was giving her his attention when he could be with other girls and it's making me question how I treat women.

I've always thought that being conservative and only having sex with girls that I fall in love with was the right thing to do. But I get the feeling that I would have a better chance of getting a decent girl if I started sleeping around because she would think that every other girl wants me - which would make her think I'm more attractive.

I don't really have an interest in casual sex, but if it increases my chances of finding the right girl, then it would be worth it. I could be wrong, but I don't think I am. I'm conflicted, but I guess I just have to make a decision.

Who has an easier time getting sex, an average looking girl or an above average looking guy?

OK I think (hope) that most people can agree that between a girl and a guy of comparative levels of attractivenes the girl will have an easier time finding someone willing to have no strings attached sex without having to lower her standards AS MUCH as the guy would.

So average looking girl has it easier than average looking guy

attractive girl easier than attractive guy

ugly girl has it hard but still better off than ugly guy...

Now what about an attractive ( above sverage) guy vs an average looking girl?

If they were both to ask 100 people at a club/party/bar for sex who do you think would get the most yes's with the least amount of effort?

I've asked this before, but maybe some new answers would be good.

I was diagnosed many years ago with a cancerous brain tumor, and I have gone through a couple of treatments over the past 8 years and things are stable now. I lost a lot of my vision from radiation therapy, but I am able to do most things aside from working in close proximity of people walking around in the workplace or driving a car.

I've been single for several years, and officially dating for a few months about 9 years ago when I was in my senior year of high school. Soon I will be 27, and most of my friends are in a long-time committed relationship living together. I'm not the hottest guy out there, but I am attractive enough for most anyone. My personality might be a little quirky, but I doubt that's the reason I've been single for so long.

I am just wondering if there's any possible chance at my age, and my medical condition if there's a remote chance of anyone finding me desirable enough to be together for a long time. I can't even remember the last time I've felt any romantic affection with someone, and I'm quite hopeless it will ever happen.

Years ago, I tried the online dating thing with some success. But after we got together a few times and they found about me having cancer, even though it's under control, they leave me because they are scared they would lose me in the future and would rather cut it off before any strong feelings started. They were pretty young obviously, but over the past 3 years there has only been a couple meaningless hookups with me pretty much giving in to their need for a fix. I kind of wish it never happened, but I'm just so desperate it's killing me.

So does anyone think it's even possible for anyone to want to spend a long time with someone that has issues like that, or should I just accept the fact I could possibly spend the remainder of my life which would likely be a bit shorter than a perfectly healthy person?