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Just broke up with my friends with benefits, I don't know if I've done the right
Tbh I didn't even know we were friends with benefits. we've only been seeing each other 3 weeks and I honestly had no idea it was only that till I counted the days. So this is why I think I've might of made a mistake. So Atm I'm very confused so I need some help.

I asked him were we like friends with benefits, He told me that he doesn't want a relationship anytime soon.

So I said that while I don't jump into relationships I don't do the friends with benefits thing either. I just told him I don't want to be one of many girls. And that he's a bigger player than I thought, And that its best if we don't see each other again.

He told me that it was a pity with loads of sad faces and that he's sorry that he can't give me what I want and that he is definitely not a player.

I replied having a f*ck buddy makes u a player, that u keep ur options open so you can sleep with whoever u like. He said that's not what his about and that he really didn't only want me for sex.

This is were I started to get confused. Because he never did actually behave like a friend with benefits. Most days he would spend hours just cuddling with me So I honestly didn't know where I stood because he wouldn't talk about it in person only over text for the first time tonight, Have I done the right thing or acted to quickly? Because I think if I set down and counted that we'd only been seeing each other 3 weeks I probably don't think I've of done it. It was just that I liked him i suppose.