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Search Results: play it cool and just be myself
He was flirting, disappeared, then came back distanced.
I met this guy back in June and just connected with him this month. It was going well for a week, we'd flirt and he'd tell me he wanted to cuddle etc, and I asked if he was free over the weekend, he said completely and...
Fashionista19
Xper 5 Age: 32 Ex girlfriend called after 3.5 months of NC, but says no to trying again. Feedback appreciated. Long story.
So my ex girlfriend broke up with me in April. It was a short relationship, we never got to the 'i love you' stage. But we were passionate and she was one of the most wonderful and kind people I've ever met. She was...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Is it way too soon to ask a girl to meet damn near right after finding her on dating site?
Just that this girl, judging by her profile it seems like we could get on incredibly well. We may well get on very well if we meet, and best of all she actually responded to me instead of ignoring me like many of the...
Electric_Dreams
Explorer Age: 34 Why does having a boyfriend seem to decrease my value to some guys?
While this may come off a bit vent-like...it's a serious question. It's so annoying and I don't even know how to approach it. My biggest issue right now is not knowing how to address the following two type...of which are...
BrighteyedAsh
Explorer Age: 40 He approached me online, how can I keep him interested?
So there's this cool guy who approached me on Facebook by firstly sending me a long message inquiring about something work-related along with some other stuff. We turned out to have met a couple of years ago. He was so...
Anonymous
(30-35) Play hard to get or be straight?
For the middle aged folk out there... I have found myself back in the dating world. We hooked up one time which may have been a mistake but that was months ago. He called it off and suggested we stay friendly. Should I...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How to be cool in an argument with a girl?
Recently I've been keeping my distance from a girl and Haven't talked to her for weeks. The reason is I hate when girls play PULL and PUSH games. There is one girl in particular. Last time when I saw HER she was...
Anonymous
(30-35) Girl I was seeing has been on my mind. Should I forget and move on?
I'll try to keep this as short as I can. Basically I was seeing this girl a few months ago. Went on a few dates and everything went good. Just after this she went on holiday with her family and after she returned I tried...
Anonymous
(36-45) What's the best thing to do in this situation?
There is a girl that I used to like but it seems like all she wants is see me being miserable. I don't mean to be dramatic but ever since we met we've had a LOT of arguments but recently it has been better, mostly because...
Anonymous
(36-45) What am I doing wrong? Please I need answers! :(
It seems like no guys ever like me. I'm not gonna be coincided but I know I'm good looking. I'm really nice and I always try to get to know people but it seems like guys only want to ever hook up and because I don't let...
Anonymous
(36-45) Need some help with a girl. (Guys and Girls)
So I met a really nice girl over the weekend at a club and we kind of hit it off. As I drove her home she was talking about some heavy things like how she is kind of ocd and I told her that I am not, my room can get a...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is she actually busy, or letting me down easy? Is she interested or just being nice to avoid sounding mean?
I got a girl's number through a mutual friend. Was told to call her. I went into the shop where she works and introduced myself. Called her later that day to ask her out. Got the voice mail, so I left a message asking her...
werschelhalker
Xper 5 Age: 40 Was he not serious to begin with or is it possible he's used to me?
I'm 17 and he's 16, we are sorta friends from a year ago who reunited and sparks flew. The thing is, the night he basically admitted to me they flew, and then a couple days later were so passionate. We kissed, cuddled,...
HoneySins
Xper 5 Age: 30 Based on this profile, what is your impression of this man?
Hello all. What parts do you like and not like? Just curious. I 100% mean everything written here, but I'm not sure if it sounds overly serious or heavy handed? Because that would be a poor indication of myself. Thanks :)...
david55
Xper 5 Age: 32 What happens when both play it cool and hard to get?
I am so frustrated! This has been going on and off for six months. And now we completely lost touch about a month ago as I never answered he's text message at 11pm to go out, as the last night we spent together he acted...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girl was chaseing me now gone cold! advice? what's my next move
I'm going to short form all this my original post on another forum was pretty long, went on a collage spring vacation, got back home a message from a girl that was also on the trip I never really spoke too seen a few...
Anonymous
(30-35) Bullying... How do you face it?
Growing up I was constantly bullied. I was the smallest guy in my classes, so I was pretty easy to put down on. Not only that, I played basketball, soccer, baseball, etc. and I was always the guy that nobody took...
snowboarder720
Guru Age: 38 Do you have people who think that you are more than you believe yourself to be?
As in, they see you in a different light than you see yourself? I feel like people think that about me. I have younger cousins who look up to me because I play guitar and I used to play a lot of video games and they...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do you think she'll move on and forget about this?
Alright, I am pretty confident that I made a mistake here. A couple of days ago I asked the girl I like to prom, and she said yes and was extremely excited and all that. Like a week before we had talked about hanging out...
celticsfan94
Xper 5 Age: 31 Is it possible to gain a guy's interest back?
So there's this guy who used to like me a lot, but I played it cool because my feelings for him weren't so strong back then.. that's until I started to really like him back, and well.. I pretty much messed up because...
Anonymous
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