Search Results: sexual fantasy

Is what I'm thinking bad?

I'm weak and have a slim bodytype. My fantasy is for a strong, muscular guy to take control. Is this wrong to think? I only think this sexual wise, but relationship wise I want it to be close to equal since equality...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

What does it mean for a close male friend to say I love you?

My friend and I have been friends for a long time. We have shared a lot of intimate things about our lives and relationships. There is also a lot of flirting between us, to the point that we have admitted to being in...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

Black men and white women...why does it happen?

Perhaps its thanks to Idris Elba and Denzel Washington, maybe Tyson Beckford. But it seems that the black man's staock is at an al time high. I'm ashamed to say that for years I wouldn't touch a white women just becuase I...

PhilaPenn

Xper 6 Age: 43

Relationships

How do you be intimate when you are in love?

I only know how to be intimate when everything is not real. When in the beginning everything is bliss. I want to be in love and be intimate. I want real relationship arguments and making up. I want to comfort a woman when...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Health & Fitness

Is it sexual tension or good ol' fashioned frustration?

Let me start by saying I'm the kind of girl whose never been keen on hints. You just need to give it to me straight. That being said, here's my vexing question. I have been living in the UK for almost two years, soon to...

Aramis78

Xper 3 Age: 47

Family & Friends

Would you break it off with someone because others don't approve?

Lots of sexual and emotional chemistry. Have been friends not close friends for years but attraction was there from day one. Last couple of years we turned it into casual hookups which resulted in feelings towards...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

A New Perspective On How Guys Can Be Too Nice

Have you ever been told by a girl that you are “too nice”? Did you shake your head in confusion wondering how that was even a problem or how they would prefer you to act? Most guys seem to react this way when told they...

celestialdaeva

Xper 7 Age: 42

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Other

I'm about to get a girlfriend. Should I give up on the second girl?

I'm a freshman in college and I met a girl at a party Monday night. She's really cute, smart, nice and good in pretty much every way. She is probably a better idea for long-term, but the second one from one of my classes...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Sister's boyfriend and I are attracted to another; harmless or flirting with disaster?

They've been dating for a few months now. Her boyfriend is pretty awesome- good guy and all. There's one thing, and I don't think I've been reading into things too much. He likes me. I know he is attracted to me, it's...

ShutYourMouth

Xper 5 Age: 34

Flirting

When I get around him and he gets all touchy feely, those feelings fade, and I become turned OFF.

So, me and this guy did this internship together and we've grown pretty close you can say, but not that close. We have serious sexual chemistry, I can feel it -- and he shows it. He calls me baby, put his hands around...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

You ever tried to set your crush up w a friend and it ended up representing you?

So I've been talking to this guy and we have gotten super close. We always flirt and text. He's always encouraging me and being nice to me. He checks on me and makes sure I am okay. He gives me advice and tells me how any...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Does he like me or is he just flirty?

This guy from my uni is a real friendly guy and he talks to like everyone. But recently he's been spending all his breaks with me,he fixes my buttons on my clothes for me, gives me long hugs, makes excuses for me to grab...

PrincessBubble

Xper 6 Age: 33

Shopping & Gifts

Where do we go from here?

I have a very close guy friend, who has a girlfriend, and says he wants to marry her. They've been dating for over 3 years, and he and I have been friends for over 2 years. She lives about 3 hours away. We've always hung...

Eawing

Xper 5 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

I'm in a serious relationship, but having fantasies about my ex?

Before I met my current boyfriend of almost 5 years, I was in a long-distance relationship with another man. Him and I were together "virtually" for an entire year, and only saw each other twice in that entire time. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

All else equal, is a girl who puts out more desirable?

v0nDutch

Xper 5 Age: 39

Assume Girl A & B are twins. They are both stunningly beautiful, not stupid, not bitchy, charming, flirty, fun, etc. They have both dated and had sex with one guy, and they were both

Assume Girl A & B are twins. They are both stunningly beautiful, not stupid, not bitchy, charming, flirty, fun, etc. They have both dated and had sex with one guy, and they were both madly in love, but now they're both over it. Now . . .

Girl A has since coped by not placing much weight on sex. She waited 3 months before having sex in an attempt to weed out guys who just wanted to get in her pants, but she saw how badly that failed. Now, if she's just not interested in a guy, she stops talking to him, and if he doesn't get the point, she spells it out clearly for him. Yet, if she's really interested in and attracted to a guy, she's not afraid to take things sexual if he feels ready and comfortable enough to go there too.

Girl B coped a little differently. After her ex broke her heart, and she got hurt, she realized that 3 months before sex is way too soon. Instead, she now has a firm one year rule. No sex until one year of dating. Even after one year has passed, unless she's convinced that the guy genuinely loves her, cares about her, want to eventually marry her, and would make a great husband and father, she won't feel comfortable or ready to have sex. Plus, sex has to be very special. She's always had a fantasy to have sex for the first time when its freshly snowing. The first snow to hit the ground would be symbolic of their first time being intimate, and it would be a moment they would both remember.

My question is two-fold, because I've been reading and hearing a lot lately from men:

1. Given the choice to start a relationship with both (as in, not just for the sex, but because you would want to be with the girl long-term, not necessarily till death do you part, but not some quick summer fling thing), which one would you prefer?

2. If you prefer one girl over the other (i.e., Girl A over Girl B, or Girl B over Girl A), is the girl you didn't pick pretty much out of the picture because you see her so negatively so as to render her undatable? (i.e., not worth the time or energy to deal with the issues she has with sex, or no way I would ever date someone who was so easy or would have sex so soon).

Select gender and age to cast your vote:

Flirting

Stunned by my brother's tutor...how can I approach her?

Ok so my 8 year old brother is the lazy type of student, and my parents decided to get a tutor for him. When they told me about it, I thought to myself 'meh, just another old hag teaching boring subjects...'. Since I...

loxagos_snake

Xper 6 Age: 33

Shopping & Gifts

Is the rapper world anything like the reality of what women are?

i notice that in rap videos like for example two chains, you see women half naked and those rappers look like they have lots of women and good times with them. The women in those videos look interested in them and even...

Daniel89

Xper 5 Age: 37

Flirting

Are nerdy girls generally thought to be not attractive?

So I joined quite a few clubs on campus - anime / video game / and some fantasy type writing club. The guys in anime and video game club keep reminding me about " how surprised," they are that I'm in these clubs? At first...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Is the mystery part of the attraction guys?

for guys, is it hot if you want a girl and you know her sexual fantasies but you don't get to do them with her even though you want to, is it all the mystery that makes you want her more maybe? what it would be like etc?

rachael19

Xper 7 Age: 35

Other

Is it weird to have a sort of 'knight in shining armour' fantasy?

It's not a sexual fantasy, but I often fatasise about being saved by a man I like, or a boyfriend. Even a male friend. This could be from anything. Is this weird? Do guys ever have this feeling as well? Even the other...

Anonymous

(36-45)