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I am constructing the ultimate plan win her back. I am taking the most outright bold approach i can think of and I am just shooting so far away from being subtle about it. I aiming to land just short of crossing the creepy line in which I believe to be the boldest range of charming. And her to gather your much appreciated feed-back...

Long story short, we got into a big fight and are in a grey area. Throughout our relationship I've often joked about how id sweep her offer her feet if i ever took her on a real 1st date. (too long to explain so just roll with me.) I left my sincerest of apologies after our fight and ended with "i"d love for you to consider letting me take you on that 1st date." Aka - A fresh start.

Here is my idea - 1. Send an official looking poster card via mail that says "you have been selected as bostons most eligible bachelorette and won our dream-date sweepstakes." Filled in with a description of a date itinerary:

2. "first date itinerary includes" - "ride service to/from all destinations. A luxurious beauty treatment fit for only a queen. Then brought to meet our other lucky winner for an unforgettable & unique mystery lunch at a slightly peculiar but ever so "cool" (it's a pun read on you'll get it) surprise location...
But wait.. There's more ! Even if your dream-dater is boring the hell out of you at lunch. We have another action packed mystery date that will be sure to take you for the "ride" (pun again) of your life-time.. And who knows maybe even a grand-finale...

3. 1st mystery date 1 will be at "cool" location of an ice-rink i will have reserved and we will have lunch center ice. ( she has to skate out). Mystery date 2 - rented a ferrari we can take for a "ride" for an hour around a racetrack.. Grand-finale - Im thinking fireworks somewhere somehow still working on this..

What do you think ladies? My aim here is to give make a power play and give her something she just can't say no to. In case you couldn't tell..

I'm a 19 year old guy who over the past year has lost over half of my hair on top of my head. docs think it could be a temporary condition due to extreme stress (my father passed away before the hair started shedding) but they also said it could easily be premature balding. Now I won't be the guy who tries to hide it or spend a fortune on products that don't work and have bad side effects. I'll just shave my head to the skin it it is male pattern, a buzzcut wouldn't work with the thinness and the hairline, but even shaved I'd still be self conscious. One of my biggest goals in life was to be married at a decently young age to a beautiful girl I really loved, however to me beauty does include looks not personality alone, don't take that as bad I'm just being honest and many people are like that, and truth be told I have high standards (I'm not saying off in space standards but decent) and I hold myself and everything in life to high standards, my family is very military it's how we are taught. Here's the rough spot, I've never actually had a girlfriend, or anything close really... salty freaking wound. I'm a very sociable person everyone in my class loved me and hell I took the class beauty queen 'popular' girl to prom so I'm not some reclusive anti social guy, but I'm sure as hell no stud either, I have pale skin that won't tan no matter how much sun I get. I'm skinny and have decent muscle tone but not mass, and my head is a bit large. So this hair deal really concerns me, please be brutally honest , my dad was coldly honest with me and I greatly appreciated it later in life, so does a19 year old who has to shave his head to skin due to premature balding stand a chance with girls his age, or does this put one foot in the grave for those dreams? Be honest, believe me you can't hurt my feelings any worse than life has. Thank you so much for your time.

So say you buy a house on a piece of land, and it's basically your dream house. You have a job in which you work hard at to pay for this house and provide for yourself and your family. You like your life and your privacy, so you put up a big fence around your property so no one can come on without your approval.

So you wake up one morning and there are a group of drifters who jumped your fence and have basically set up shop on your property. There are quite a few of them and they're demanding that you feed them and give them money to survive while they stay for free on your property.

What do you do? Do you kick them out and send them back over the fence? Or is it fair that you take your hard earned money and pay them to live for free on your land while doing nothing?

What would you do?