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he is really an really good guy friend and he did flirt with me, asked me to chill alone and shown some signs but he also flirts with a lot of girls and shown some fuck boy sign even thought he told me once that he talks to loads of girls and thats it , he just talks , im way too afraid that if ill crush on him again this time that he falls in love with someone els while leading me on or sleeps around with loads of girls and that if that happens he's probably going tell me about it and that would break my heart and make me feel desperate and lonely and so forever alone and beyond insecure,

he was the one who knocked my heart out cold once but he was also the one who made it have a beat again.

those thoughts scare me and I could cry myself to sleep if this ever happens

his behaviour towards me changes everyday but im l am lost he is the only person in the world I felt for over and over again I am unsure of my own feeling now.

so please give me tips

This guy and i have been seeing each other everyday, except for today. Earlier today my mum asked me this question which I thought was kind of weird knowing i only know him for a very short period of time

mum: "who is this guy you've been seeing?"
me: "you know who he is"
mum: "yes but what are you guys?"
me; "idk mum. We've only known each other for what? Less than a week. I don't know what are we. Right now we're just two people enjoying each other company"
mum: "what if you fall in love with him?"

i didn't answer that question of hers cause i never really think about it that far yet. All i know now is that i like this guy and i really enjoy his company. I like to just go with the flow and see what happens and not think about these things too much.

Is it weird that my mum asked me that question? Is it too soon for her to asked me it?

i think she's afraid that I'll really like this guy and get my heart broken knowing that he's a foreigner. But its just too soon for her to be asking me stuffs like these dont you think?

Background info: So, my twin brother, Reese, has been friends with my crush, Alex, since we were all little. We're all the same age. Alex lives the next town over so we don't go to school together. Now we're all 16. I also have a little brother (8) and a little sister (11)

I've had a crush on Alex since we were little, he was always at our house, or he would go places with us, this may seem weird but I didn't know how to get his attention so I was always mean to him. As the years passed I matured a little. When we were around 13, I think he started falling for me. We would playfully tease each-other and when he came over, he hanged out with me more than Reese. He would follow me around and talk to me. At first I thought he was just teasing me and wanted to be friends. I know this sounds cheesy, but I mainly thought he liked me because of how he stared at me, the look in his eyes made me fall in love with him. Somehow Reese found out that I liked him and he teased us (which means that Alex knows I like him) and my little sister and brother do it too now. One day Reese pushed Alex into my room and was forcing me to hug him and I completely ignored them. Now It seems like Alex doesn't like me anymore :( Do you think him finding out scared him a little, or maybe because I ignored him before? It's really awkard now. Also, I'm really good at hiding my feelings about someone. I could really tell he liked me before. I at least want to be friends with him but I'm afraid that if we talk, they're all going to tease us. We recently went to six flags together, and Alex didn't even talk to me. I was heartbroken. Do you think he's just hiding his feelings now because of my siblings? We don't even follow eachother on SC or instagram, so it's not like we can chat online. I can't stop thinking about him I really like him. Recently Reese said "Alex is single Riley!" and Alex quickly responded with "I have a girlfriend" I don't know I just don't understand guys.

Sorry this is a lot, I just can't stop thinking about him