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Search Results: confidence or insecurity
My insecurity is preventing me from flirting properly, please help!
When I was younger I wasn't as attractive as I am now. (I do not want to come of conceited but I had to mention that.) Now, I've been asked out by plenty guys and they tell that I'm pretty. But, do to the amount of...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do I always feel so unattractive about myself?
I'm a 28 year old man. I'm generally career focused, and I'm quite happy with the way my career is progressing (although there's still a lot more to be done). Right since childhood, I have felt that I'm very 'ugly''. I...
Anonymous
(36-45) I don't believe that women can be forever turned off by a man?
I read that if you were needy or desperate for her after getting in panic mode from her then it is a major turn off for the crush. But if you cut it out and stop doing it completely and when she calls you up first...
RalphBlack
Explorer Age: 43 What does this mean "Part of their self confidence comes from your own insecurity"?
For example these guys gain there self confidence from my own insecurity? I'm so confused. Like I feel less confident around these 3 guys because they seem so confident around me? I realized this during the school year...
Cheerleader283827
Xper 3 Age: 29 How to stop being desperate for a girlfriend?
Fine, I'll capitulate to everyone's so-called advice! Since I apparently have to be perfect to ever even be considered boyfriend material (look like a model, be absolutely confident, passionate, aggressive, not be...
Anonymous
(25-29) Insecure people... what made you lose your self confidence?
I'm just really curious about everyone's story behind their insecurities...
journalsxo
Xper 5 Age: 28 Why are pretty girls more insecure than average girls?
Everyone has insecurities but I've noticed that the pretty girls care a lot more about their flaws and try to hide them. They obsess over every little detail and care so much about their appearance. They always strive to...
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you think you are attractive/good looking/etc?
I know everyone has their insecurities about their bodies and appearance, but are you able to accept your insecurities and view yourself as attractive? I don't think I'm a model or anything but I can see how some guys...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you believe are the biggest signs that someone is insecure?
Since in my question about confidence most of you voted solid eye contact to be the biggest sign of confidence, I'ma say lack of eye contact is a pretty big sign of insecurity. I don't know if its the biggest tho. What...
ThreeIn
Xper 7 Age: 35 Girls, why do you never believe our complements?
I think my girlfriend is incredibly beautiful, hilarious, and sexy. I love her face, her body, her scent, her style (actually, her total lack of caring about those things makes it even cuter). But she has a thousand...
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls have told me I'm hot, and funny. Yet Why do I still have low self confidence and struggle with dating?
Throughout my life I've been complimented on my good looks along with my funny jokes and personality. Some women have even told me I resemble Leonardo DiCaprio. But unfortunately I have really struggled with flirting with...
Shpongolia
Yoda Age: 41 What is it about confidence that women find so attractive? Is it socially constructed? Or is there an evolutionary reason for it? Buddhists say nay?
Please, no "every girl is different" answers. Explain what the attraction mechanism is to confidence in men. According to the Buddha, confidence is inextricably linked to the ego. Confidence is nothing more than an...
partyboy45
Xper 6 Age: 38 Ok so I see many people here with self-esteem and confidence issues!?
I know how bad it is to have insecurities and to stand up and talk about anything.. I've been there and sometimes i do get paranoid depending on the situation. So i was hoping we guys could think of something where we...
kartoos
Explorer Age: 34 Husband claims to be against breast implants?
I've always been self conscious about my breasts because they've always been large and not so perky. After having a baby and going through a dramatic weight loss, they are even more saggy. It's a huge drain on my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is this true or nothing but a lie?
So I've heard many times that popular guys who are full of confidence in the public and in front of girls are actually not that confident when it comes to approaching a girl they like? That they are just acting like that...
HelenM1
Xper 5 Age: 30 Is there any way back for me with this guy now?
Long story short, me and a guy met online, we just clicked, we would talk every day for ten months on the phone/online, i spoke to his family and friends. yet during this time i refused to meet up numerous times due to my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Second opinions on mindset of ex-girlfriend.?
We broke up, I disappeared and worked on myself. 5 weeks later she called a couple times and texted a couple times asking odd questions. I called a week after this started, got "we're done, don't talk to me, I'm seeing...
Anonymous
(36-45) Fear that friends will stop liking you/ lack of confidence?
I have a group of friends and we get along fine. It's quite a big group so some people are closer than others. We don't always meet up with all of them, because the group is too big. Let me already say that I can be...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do people get girlfriends so easily around my age?
I am 16 and I have never had a girlfriend or a date...hell not even a real-life female friend and have hardly ever been flirted with. I had my first crush during the late months of being 12 years old. She rejected me...
Anonymous
(25-29) My insecurities are limiting my relationships?
It would mean the world to me if you took time to read this, and respond. Thank you. :) I can only recall a couple times in my life where I have felt really good about myself. I'm in my mid-teens and already an...
Anonymous
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