Here's the truthL
Girls? Yeah, we're not that great. Lots of guys around your age, or the ones who have never dated seem to think that having a girlfriend means having this hot chick who giggles at all your jokes and will be cute and adorable all the time. But that's not how it goes.
Having a girlfriend means you basically have just committed to being her best friend who happens to have a penis and who she makes out with. Sounds great, right? Wrong. Because as her best friend, you must now listen to all the gossip nonsense she has to tell you about how her best friend Suzie's ex boyfriend Brian was flirting with Kendra who is Suzie's sister's friend's cousin who is a total slut and totally stole Brian from Suzie in the first place. And then you'll have to hear about how even though she's not actually involved with any of that drama, she still has a valid opinion on it and she'd totally fix the problem but she doesn't want to be nosy.
Having a girlfriend also means that you must suddenly become aware of all the dirt in your group of friends and their relationships because when said girlfriend runs out of dirt, she's going to want to hear any you have to spill.
And when she's not being a shallow typical gossipy girl, she's going to be being unattractive with her stupid snort that stopped being cute around the billionth time she did it today and how she's going to start getting annoyed easily at you after about the first 3 months of dating.
And relationships are hard work. If you want girly girl sooner or later her incessant need to be doted on is going to drive you nuts and if you want an independent girl sooner or later it's going to drive you bonkers that she never needs your help and if you want a mix of the two it's going to drive you batty how she's girly when she should be independent and she says she doesn't need your help when you know she needs it and then you'll fight and... yeah. :)
Just some hypothetical situations to look forward to :p
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I can see where you're coming from. Everyone's gonna say "well it doesn't matter. Your only __years old." But it does matter sometimes. The fact that you listed all those things that girls want you to be and admitted that you're not that. I think is great! You seem like a great guy don't let others bring you down. Even tho I know that's hard to overcome sometimes.
Spend your time helping others like in a homeless shelter
The thing is, you shouldn't be pretending to be someone you're not. Sometimes it seems like you should but you'll realize when you're older that it's better to just be who you are. Give less shits about what other people think of you and just be yourself.
As a wise man once said, "Be who are and say what you feel because those that mind don't matter and those that matter don't mind."
Let that sink in for a bit.
Next, ask yourself why you want a girlfriend. Is it because everyone else seems to have one? Is it because you think it will bring you some sort of happiness that you've been missing out on?
Now ask yourself whether you would date yourself if you were a girl? Why? Why not?
I don't know your life so it's hard to say why you haven't had luck with the ladies. You seem like a cool dude so be patient. It's not a race. You will meet better girls in your lifetime.
First of all, you're under 18 which means everything your peers think and know about relationships is between bull s**t and fantacy. You're also confused. The first thing I would do is realize your age and stop worrying about girls. By the time you and girls your age are actually ready for a relationship, you both will have made hundreds of changes in how you do, perceive, and understand yourself and other people. Nothing you said is accurate or understood correctly. Calm down and stop worrying about having a gf at your age. You have more than enough time for that when you are actually ready.
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Why do you want a girlfriend if you think girls are completely retarded?
Focus on something else, you are under 18 who wants annoying girlfriend anyways? Why don't you do stuff you like and forget about girls?
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Well, how old r u?
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