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Hi, ^_^. I'm not trying to down anyone or anything, but I have noticed a lot of people ask questions that deal with their inconfidence. Like boob sizes, butt sizes, and how there vagina looks. They ask questions like 'Am I attractive?' and then describe their body, or post pictures of themselves. Most of these questions are posted over and over, and they majority of answers are the same-'It doesn't matter' And yet, in a couple of days, the same questions come back.

For me, I really think that lack of confidence is kind of unattractive. At least when potentially dating someone it is. And I wanted to know, are there others who think so?

But don't get me wrong, everyone has their own insecurities and things they don't particularly like about themselevs. But I'm talking about lack of confidence-wishing they were or had something different. Or people who dwell on their insecurities, even though people have given them reassurance.

Because I think if I have enough people think the same, then I think people will stop letting those things rule there lives and they'll become an attractive person again. Because to me, no matter how hot, or sexy, or cute, or adorable, someone is, if they constantly complain, worry, or 'down' themselves, then it's a huge turn off.

Again, I'm not trying to say anything bad about anyone. But I do feel bad for those who let their insecurities keep them from being happy.

Feel free to say whatever you like, positive or negative. Thanks! ^_^.

/or If you have any that is. :)

I was talking about this with friends about it and some people get frustrated by racial preferences, may feel its racist, or may feel left out. I have friends all over the rainbow so I hear different perspectives on this. Personally, I do consider it racist somewhat, though certainly not always, but then I think most people in this country are racist on a less conscious level. Their conscious opinions and preferences are only manifestations of that racism whether they realize it or not. It's like a part of the world we live in unfortunately. Or fortunately depending on how you feel about it. lol I don't take it personally though, yknow, it is what it is.

I don't see the purpose in getting bothered about it. I'm not even being stereotypical here, but one of my Asian friends feels like Asian guys are at the bottom of the totem pole. He doesn't prefer Asian women though but he likes other women. He feels like there are so many stereotypes working against him and he feels like every move he makes in life is trying to disprove them. Also, standards for masculinity and attractiveness don't equal to the way most Asian guys look so that bothers him. He rants about this a lot actually and when I tried to tell him you shouldn't get upset over this and just accept that people generally prefer what you arent, he said I just can't understand. I had to stop him there because I am a black girl. Of course I understand. Black women are at the bottom of the beauty totem pole. I am the first one to just accept that standards of beauty that men have accepted globally are things many black women can't measure up to. I understand a guy not wanting to date me because I'm black. It's fine. I don't get pissed about it and so I tell him he should just shut up. I would bet money that there is a general consensus that black women and Asian men are the least attractive and least desirable. It's just something that is and you can't change how people feel. You should just be happy with your own life instead of worrying about what most people may think. It isn't hard to find some loving. lol The ugliest people of the most attractive groups find love or sex, so it's not difficult for the more attractive of the least attractive groups (like us :P) to find it as well. I generally have no problem with guys even though I am part of a group seen as unattractive. I'm just happy with my life idk.

Anyway how do you feel about this ladies and gents - racial preferences are they good or bad in dating? do you have any race that you tend to be less/more sexually attracted to? Do other peoples preferences ever annoy you? Be honest no censors up in this bitch. lol

I'm gonna add a poll too. Just because I feel like it. ^__^