Search Results: dealing with being hurt

Any suggestions on how to heal the pain?

hey guys, Ive had an amazingly rough 4 months and I think its finally catching up on me big time. I had experienced some really unpleasant things go wrong in a spand of 4 months which I tried so desperately to ignore and...

isabellarosa

Xper 5 Age: 42

Is there actually any guy out there who will be willing to deal with all of my baggage?

I have never actually had a good experience in regards to being close to a straight man. From my own father to close guy friends, it never turns out well. My dad is an asshole. He always has been and he always will be....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

What did I do wrong?

My boyfriend and I began dating in July of 2010, just 2 weeks after my best friend passed away. He stepped in at a very important time and became my everything. We were inseparable and the best of friends. Over time,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He dumped me, so why is he being such a jerk?

My boyfriend of 10 months dumped me about a month & a half ago. We were best friends, absolutely inseparable, and this came as a huge shock to everyone who knows us, including me. He only gave me one reason as to why we...

katiebukata

Xper 5 Age: 33

I live with my fiance and need some advice on him pulling away from me?

My fiance and I have been together for five years and have lived together for four. We have always had a very close loving relationship. The last year has been harder as we were dealing with some family and work stuff....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do I get him back?

This guy and I were seeing each other for a few months and we became official. He said I love you that same day and it was amazing because even though I'm not IN love with him I do like and care about him a lot. Well a...

sosara21

Xper 5 Age: 35

Why do people chase after people who don't want a relationship? why don't you just accept you want diff things

fear of commitment afraid of being hurt difficulty trusting- call it what you will. but of you want a relationship & they do not, then not only do they not want one but you two are bot compatible. its like you have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Does This Shy Girl Like Me??

I'm dealing with a shy girl, I don't know if she like me, but I have a feeling that she does. Just about every time I talk to her she asks me how my day is or asks how I'm doing in general. Whenever we talk in person...

gibsonguitarist

Xper 5 Age: 32

He will not leave my mind and is affecting me negatively, though not even in my life anymore. Help?

So, I've been in a messy relationship. The guy would give breaks and not make sense. From one thing to the other. More towards the end. I feel like everything, because there was a lot at one point, a lot of feelings, I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I have the right to be upset/hurt/mad by what she's done since our breakup?

It's been 3 months since we broke up. We dated for 3 years. I've since found out that she started dating a "friend" of mine 6 weeks ago...that's 6 weeks after we broke up. She's decided to move 3 hours away to be close to...

leetaylor

Xper 5 Age: 44

Do you think he has bipolar disorder?

My ex and I were together for 2.5 years. We were best friends that met in grad school. We decided to move in together after 9 months of being together. The first 9 months were great, we had a blast together. Shortly...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

What is your opinion on the "Myth of Romantic Love". Do you believe it's true or is it an excuse?

The Myth of Romantic Love is a westernized fantasy of the happily ever after story book ending. It is said that everyone expects the white knight in shining armor and the beautiful princess feelings are to last through...

caligirl73

Xper 4 Age: 53

Great long term relationship, HORRIBLE and unexpected breakup. HELP!

My ex and I dated for 15 months. We had a great relationship, not without its ups and downs. Were both seniors in high school. In January, he started engaging less in our relationship, he stopped doing little things to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to let go, not of him entirely, but of speaking negatively to him because I'm affected?

I have a tendency to be really mean, emotional, pushy, and not pleasant when I am insecure. I was with a guy for 2 years. He broke up with me. It's been 2 months. When we were together, it was chaotic at times, on and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he pulling away when he was so sure about us?

There's a guy I met this past summer in a class of mine. We've both admitted that we kind of had little crushes on each other back then. Apparently he said he wanted to ask me out back then but sort of chickened out....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

For those who are dealing or still hurting?

From a break up here's something that will help Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there... to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out...

Mixed28

Xper 5 Age: 34

Dating

When men get a "wake up call" do they really?

I am in a friends with benefits situation with this guy who has been hurt by a few women. He won't let anyone in, has no attachment between sex and love, and makes himself the priority. After ditching me a few days ago,i...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to be forgiven and get a chance to be with my ex-fiance after hurting him emotionally and physically?

We met each other years ago and he was attracted to me but we didn't go out since we've seen each other just for few weeks. Since that time, I was alone for 4 years. I am really independent and enthusiastic about my...

Stupidstupidgirl

Xper 2 Age: 44