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my boyfriend and i met on an online game, and we are dating irl. my boyfriend is a really internet person with friends on the internet. 1 month into our relationship, he got to know this girl on the same game we met. they became friends and started calling everyday. he neglected our relationship, ignored my messages, and lied to me about things. he also exchanged texts with the girl like "i love you", "i miss you" dirty jokes etc. when i found out i got REALLY angry and wanted to break up with him. he said he is really sorry and the reason he did it is because i was busy and he missed me a lot so he had to keep himself busy, which i think is bs. he promised to stop exchanging texts like i love you and to think about my feelings more. he broke off all contact with her ONLY after i told him to.
after this, for 6 months he did not do any fishy stuff, did not get too close to girls. however, a few weeks ago, he did the same mistake again. this time his old friend (internet) came back after a long time. and they called every single day for more than 5 hours a day. once he woke up, when she's getting ready for school, literally whenever they can. this only stopped when i confronted him. i got really angry again and his reason is, his old friend for years came back after a long time so they wanted to catch up and he got carried away and did not consider my feelings enough.
now he's telling me to forgive him again, and that he will change this time. but the first time he said he will change, it seemed so real too. i thought he did. but he didn't and did the same thing to hurt me again. tbh, he's a nice boyfriend. he showed me his messages with these girls which meant he's honest. everyday after my school, he takes a bus for 1 hour to fetch me home just for 20 minutes and goes home for 1 hour again. he's nice, just not too smart. should i forgive him again? how do i let myself trust him again. i really do not want this relationship to end but i dont know if he will really change this time.

last night he drove to my place to talk since we got into a little argument. he went to buy me chocolates (lol) so anyway we have been dating for over 6 months. i do have strong feelings for him but because of my past, i still have trust issues with men so whenever he compliments me.. I dont entirely believe it. And yes we are sexually intimate.
So last night I had no make up on and just wore my pjs. And we talked about the argument and we were back to okay. And then out of nowhere, he says:
"you look so pretty"
"have I told you that you're so beautiful?"
"youre so cute. i can't believe you're my girlfriend"
Do guys say that if they are not genuine/dont mean it?

Guys help me out 😂

So i met this girl at a Meet up group where meet to network. We hit it off well to where she pursued texting me everyday and wanted to see me a lot soon after which was odd to me. She invited me and others to a meet up event that happened this past weekend. 2 other girls with us and we were chillin having a good time for hrs until she decides to invite her boyfriend out w/his friends which caused us to have to go to another spot bc it was too crowded for extra people. fast forward, me, her, her boyfriend and his friends end up going to a strip club later that night and i met up with them later after they been there for like 10 minutes. She looked like she was ready to go and said to me that she was gonna go outside and get some fresh air. So that told me she will be right back, not to go with her. She was gone too long, went to look for her and she texted saying she passed out on the way out and mad that i wasn't with her, but (she never said to come with her). i texted her that she didn't ask me to go and she ignored and i later told her boyfriend what was going on and he agreed that she gets like that and dont worry. So we had to leave bc she was outside in her car like a crazy person. We walked up to her and she is looking moody and irritated and im just so confused on what just happened. Anyways, that morning she sent me tons of text msgs saying i should have come with her when she asked me (she never asked me, she just said im going to get some fresh and walked away fast) Then said she can't believe i asked her boyfriend why she is acting like this and that that was embarrassing and that she dont trust me around him, like crazy stuff that made no sense she got mad over. I barely know this girl and she did a complete 180 on me. I never said nothing bad about her to her boyfriend.

So i ignored all those text messages she sent me trippin over nothing. i swear she is bipolar. my friend thinks i should go back to talking to her. Would you? This is so small to me

My boyfriend (been together 6 mnths) would always offer a ride home whenever I tell him Im coming home late or Im going out with my friends at night.
He would be like "call me if u need to be picked up somewhere" or "dont call uber. i dont like it and dont trust them. ill pick u up"
Im not complaining about this but yeah just wondering why.. like does he not trust me? Is he being paranoid I might be lying to him about where I am? Or just to make sure I get home safe?

I have been with my boyfriend for about 6/7 months and he has been amazing. We do have our ups and downs like we do argue here and there but he likes to solve it the next day. Anyway he would always like to call me every night just to talk (I dont mind this). I asked him "you know, we dont need to talk every night if u dont want to? why do you call every night, just curious?" and he replied "tbh I get paranoid, and I wanna check up on you, and I want to hear your voice"
He has said "i love you" a lot but I have trust issues due to my past so yes its difficult to believe guys now adays for me.
Is this clingy? Is he falling in love?
I dont have a problem with this but yeah just out of curiosity