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This is kind of long, but I promise, very interesting and fun.

Me:

- Yoga instructor

- Dancer

Him:

- Guy in my yoga class

The way the school works is that customers can register for classes on their own schedule. He showed up during my weekly beginner's class.

What happened:

- He showed up to my weekday class

- I asked everyone to share their names

- I made up an excuse to ask him what he did

- While teaching class, I was constantly looking at him and gazing into his eyes for like 3-5 seconds each time and smiling

- He was smiling back, but not in a shy way

- He's confident, but not arrogant or cocky, just easy-going and secure

- He's obviously really cute

- I kept finding excuses to touch him during class and help him adjust his posture or stand on top of him and use my hips to adjust his hips instead of just telling him what to do like I do to everyone else.

After class:

- I did some snooping

- Turns out he's been to more classes than just my class

- He's been to other female instructors more than once

- He's registered for 3 more upcoming classes with the same female instructor; even though she's older, married and with children and says so on her profile on the website

- He's bought his own yoga mat, towels and blocks in our store, and considering his history of classes and how serious he was in class, I know he's not just one of those guys who takes a yoga class or two looking to meet cute girls.

My Question:

- I don't know how old he is. He's probably in his mid-20's. But he seems very focused, mature and professional. How realistic is it of me to expect a guy with manners to make a move on me as his instructor?

- I don't even know if he has a girlfriend, is married, or w/e. I also don't want to make a fool of myself in my own class.

What do you think I should do?

I met this guy online. I've been seeing him for 2.5 months now and I think things are good... his past and general outlook on life suggests he's not afraid of commitment, and right now he does all kinds of things that suggest he views us as more of a relationship than just 'dating.' But we haven't really talked about it. I'm not a fan of The Talk because it makes people so uncomfortable sometimes, and girls have a habit of bringing it up too soon, so I thought I'd wait for him to come to me on his own terms. Anyway, as much as things are implied, he still goes on the website we met on. I get emails in my normal inbox saying I have mail there, and I like to read them just for fun. I literally log on, read them, laugh (some of them are kinda funny) then log off. But sometimes if I look at his profile it'll say he's online, and he'll be online for much longer. I admit, sometimes I log on with my friend's profile and wait to see if he logs off, and he won't for quite a while. It implies he's doing searches and messaging other girls.

I'm not really sure what to do here. Like I said, I hate the whole idea of The Talk. I don't wanna come across as needy or whatever, but I want to know if he's going to get exclusive with me ever or if I should look for someone else who will. Guys - do you still see other girls for a while before you commit? If so, how long does it usually take you to decide? Should I be worried here or is it just a case of hanging around for another couple weeks? I just don't wanna end up hanging around for like 2-3 more months or something.