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**HE IS NATURALLY COLD AND HIDES HIS FEELINGS AND GIVES INDIRECT ANSWERS

Friends for three years. He kept asking me out, I kept turning him down, finally I snapped and accepted. Dated for four months. He was always busy but we both tried. He broke up with me because he was way too busy (it wasn't an excuse. I saw how tired he was). He was acting distant, I asked if we should break up BUT told him I didn't want to. His reply? I think so.

Acted cold to all of us at work (I work with him). I told him that I missed him in person, he said "okay". Texted him how I felt. No response. Next day, I avoided him. He saw me and had a huge smile. Friend tutored me at a table, ex showed and sat with us (ex usually sits at that table). He kept smiling and laughing at everything I said. Waited until everyone was gone before giving me a b-day gift. Kept the sticky note I gave him when we were crushing, telling him to have a horrible day without me, it was a joke.

Summer school - Would come in, usually with a smile, say hello and say something random. or show me a random commercial.

Recently: I asked him what would he do if I avoided him (I know, stupid question)
Here:"Me: How would you feel if I avoided you?
Him: With my hands.
Me: That doesn't make sense.
Him: I believe your decisions are up to you, not to me.
Me: I was just wondering. I won't actually do it.
Him: I don't care either way "

Last note: My friend asked him (without my permission) on my birthday how he felt about me. Ex said he had to go even though they were talking for a while. (Ex also stayed after school on my birthday in our area, something he never did except when we were dating).

Friend asked ex again in early July.
Friend: You still have feelings for her (me)?
Ex: (Hands deep in pocket, huge smile) Of course I still love my mother!
Friend: No seriously, do you still like her (me)?
Ex: I feel this question, bye!

I know this is kindof a weird question but I'm just curious. Which one would you rather celebrate? I know many haters of Valentine's day will probably choose Halloween. I, in particular, choose Valentine's day because, first of all, I don't celebrate Halloween anymore. Neither does anyone in my family. I stopped when I was a teen. Halloween, in my opinion, is more for kids. We don't even give out candy anymore (more for us). Valentines, however is where you can show other people you care about them by doing nice things for them and giving them gifts.Not only for couples it can be for friends or even family too, because they care about you too. That's what I was raised to believe so I'm sticking with it.