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Let me state this from my perspective. Abortion is used as a birth control for the most part. Yes some women get pregnant as a result of rape. Some women face problems during pregnancy, like the baby is dead or severely disabled. In these cases, women are not to blame. They deserve zero shame and it should be left at a private matter. I agree abortion should be legal in those cases. Most people do.

However, the extreme majority of abortions are done for "convenience" reasons. Reasons which are futile. Reasons like, the woman wants to stay in college - her parents could help raise the child or give the baby for adoption or she can just resume college after a year. Second is money. This is a ridiculous reason. Lastly, the biggest reason was that women didn't want to be single parents. My response is this...

If you are unable to deal with the consequences of your actions do not do them. That's why we have a justice system. But for some reason women don't have to play by the rules and can use this 'get out of jail, card'. It's wrong. Abortion should not be used as a birth control and I'm surprised it's still legal. I thought humans were turning away from our barbaric past. I guess not.

In short, a person that cannot face the consequences of their actions is a coward. So do you think these women are cowards?

*This is not intended to offend anyone. This is a question on principles, morals and respect for life. If you cannot accept that someone has different opinions than you, and feel the need to post hate comments and report this question, just know that you are impeding my right to free speech and you can't live life shutting down people who think differently than you. That's what dictators do. Liberals are pretty much dictators though so I expect hate comments from salty feminists that think a woman spreading her legs and paying for her baby to be thrown in the trash is giving her dignity.

How much leverage should a mother get for doing something horrible when she is the one that gave birth to you after carrying you in the womb for 9 months?

My mother sexually abused me at age 3 years old and abandoned me by dropping me off at a juvenile center and walking away at age 4.

If it wasn't for her sacrifice giving birth to me I would not even exist. I wouldn't be typing this post.

Still... it have ruined so much in my life and in my dating relationship experience. I was a virgin for 27 years because of the abuse. I was so scared and when I was young I was practically mute. The pain and all of the lies over the years "YOu are MY man.. I will come and get you and bring you back home someday.." yeah... all of these things I dont think I can ever forgive her for.

But now she has breast cancer. What if she dies? Am I doing something wrong if I can't forgive her and will never let her walk me down the aisle at my wedding? Am I in the wrong if she dies and I don't go to her funeral? At this point her side of the family is shaming me for not replying to her.