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So more recently, though I've usually been trying to ignore it for most of my life, I've been displaying an interest in girls.

I've always liked girls... cute faces, soft skin, longer hair, cute giggles/laughs, softer voices than guys, etc... and more recently, I actually want a girl I can physically be with and have fun with, rather than just an image of my head, of me having a theoretical imaginary girlfriend.

And I was talking this through with my friends... a group of 5. And one of them said, "Well you're not getting a girlfriend with those short ass shorty shorts!" And just slapped my knee. Then the other 3 agreed and nodded. And from then, I just joked about it and took it cool, "What? You jealous you all don't have muscular legs like me, chicken legs?"

But it got me thinking...do most girls actually care?

In that scenario my friends were most likely just joking around, but do girls care?

Most of my shorts are the length as shown in the above photo, about 7 inch inseam.

Then for swimming trunks... those are only like 2 inch, but they're for swimming anyways. How else am I supposed to feel the warm sunlight and cool water on my skin?

The 7 inch inseam shorts are usually about a hand or two above my knee, and sometimes rise up to my lower thighs as I sit... but I never really cared.

But then again, I grew up with 3 slightly older sisters, and despite being older than me, since because I guess they were girls, they worse shorts like this.

So in comparison, I actually thought my shorts were really long. I even asked my parents for shorter shorts like theirs so I don't stick out so much, but they said boys don't wear shorts that short.

But in comparison to other guys... it seems like my shorts are ridiculously short, and I don't want to come off as a joke in front of girls I want to impress.

Last night, me and my girlfriend had just had sex... and she asked me if I wanted to go out for the night and have some fun. I said sure.

She then proceeded to just put on a bra and thong, and put on a dress on top of that of about this length:

She fixed her hair up a little, put on a little bit of makeup, put on her shoes, and said, "I'm ready to go!"

And I was like, "Are you really gonna wear that dress with just a thong underneath? Out in public?"

She nodded.

I smirked and was like, "You're a bad, BAD girl..."

And she was like, "Hm, how so? I never even thought about it. Thongs are just more comfortable, prevent pantylines, and I just like them. My friends mostly do the same, too."

And it kind of shook me...

Does the average girl REALLY just wear nothing but a thong underneath her dress?

Or is my girlfriend just an exception?

Met her a few months ago while visiting the club I have gone to for a while now. I turned down dances from her for a few visits opting for conversation and drinks instead.

We eventually hung out with a mutual friend of ours at a bar, played pool, shot the shit. Turns out we got a bit in common with humor, travels and interests. She is currently a part time model and a student going for a marketing degree online.

So I finally got a dance from her one visit along with her number. She texted me the day after getting it saying she enjoyed spending time with me and that I was sweet.

She has never asked me to come see her in the club like lots of strippers do. We have flirted a lot over text, sending gifs, emojis, she sent two selfies (one from underwear shoot, then other a selfie in a white dress) and long messages/replies.

We went out on a lunch date. She fed me a piece of my meal and had her phone away the entire time, also paid for the food when I had my wallet out. I tried to go for a kiss, but she turned it down saying she had sushi breath. Sent me a gif of two people kissing instead.

In the club when we hang out she never asks me to tie her, she has given me kisses to the cheek and always laughs and smiles with me (did the laughing and smiling outside club too). She has given me a massage before, no mention of charge, seems excited when she sees me.

Tried to cheer me up the other week when our mutual friend and I got into a fight, checked in on me and asked how I was.

She asked me things like "How many kids do I want?" "What do you value in a relationship?" "What do you like in a woman?"

Recently she said I was in a dream she had and asked if she would look better with darker blonde hair or lighter. She also texted me last week she would come up for air soon ( said something similar the day we had our lunch date)

I am not sure if this is part of her game, but I am staying arms length away to stay detached.