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Is it normal for a guy to be rude and hurtful about it?

This guy talked to me for over three hours one night, telling me about his past and opening about things he normally doesn't share, and afterwards, always tried to find excuses to hang out with me. He would flirt a lot even though there were other girls around and I would catch him staring at me when he thought I wasn't aware.
He would also get irritated when I would talk about other guys in my life, particularly one really successful guy I had been talking to last year. He mentioned something about not being all that but "I know how to please a woman" is what he said before looking right at me intently. In anycase, I eventually started liking him and figuring he returned the feelings, told him about it. I don't normally do this and got really nervous, telling him he had helped me get over the guy from last year and basically making excuses for why I felt the way I did. He knows I've never done this before but instead of being understanding and realizing I was nervous-- I mean my voice was shaking and I felt like crying-- he said he was sorry I felt that way. He said he flirts with everyone and I wasn't an exception to the case. He told me he didn't go for girls like me. He said I was a good person but he didn't find me attractive. And then he claimed I was infatuated with him and questioned how I could really like him. He wouldn't even look at me while he said all this and looked really tense the entire time.

I've never been turned down before and most guys usually approach me first so I'm curious to know, is this normal guy behavior for when you all aren't interested in a girl?