Search Results: is my job getting in the way of dating

Girl going through a bad time: What's the best thing to do? Girls what do you think?

So recently this girl I was dating (and still, sort of am, even though she says she doesn't want anything too serious right now) is going through a bit of a bad spell, she's quit her job, her mum's been ill, she was meant...

dyfman31

Xper 5 Age: 31

Break Up & Divorce

Should I tell my bestfriend/ex girlfriend that is flirting and talking to me that I miss her and want her back?

So im in love with my bestfriend. I fell for her since I was 16 (was taken at the time) I known her since I was 5, and I am currently 22. We had only started dating for the first 4 months until out of nowhere she ask to...

loveanddestiny

Xper 4 Age: 34

Dating

How do I go about asking my (at one time best) friend, whom I just slept with, out on a date?

I met him ten years ago when I was 16 and he was 20. He immediately friend-zoned me because of the age difference and took on a big brother role in my life. We talked every night on the phone. I would tell him about high...

vanillapinkcake

Xper 5 Age: 38

Dating

Ex Girlfriend from over a year coming to me for dating advice? Not over her?

Me and my ex have been broken up for over a year. It was a really tough one for me because I really gave 1000% all the time and she would never fully commit/kind of dragged me along. I ended it with her and we went our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Should I try avoiding women for the next few years so I can achieve my goals?

Hi y'all. I'm going to be attending college soon for my dream pursuit of an engineering major. It will be extremely difficult but I'm up for the challenge. Anyways, I have really big goals set for myself within the next 5...

front2back

Master Age: 30

Girl's Behavior

My best friend is afraid of me getting close to her?

TranceSai

Xper 5 Age: 33

I will make this short. I met my best friend at my job. We have become close friends to a point we can talk about anything. I'm a guy (21) and she is a girls (20). I am there anything

I will make this short. I met my best friend at my job. We have become close friends to a point we can talk about anything. I'm a guy (21) and she is a girls (20). I am there anything to support her. Our experience? I told her that her boyfriend was using her for just sex. She denied it and later saw he really was. Then her second boyfriend, they moved into sex 1 month later, which I told her was too fast. the guy ended up breaking her heart. But for some instances, I ended up falling in love with her after that break up because we got closer from it. I told her but she said she doesn't look at me the same way back. She is afraid to lose our friendship. That hurt me a lot. So now, 1 week after the breakup, she found another guy. But this guy was going to use her for sex and I know because i talked to that guys ex and she said the same thing. Now, my good mornings to my best friend are weak because she only expects them from the guy she's dating. What I'm saying is, we acted like our friendship was like relationship, but now, her emotions of friendship goes to the new guy. I told her, I want to leave because I don't have a purpose here, when I have to watch the girl I like, love someone else. She told me she needed me and want me to stay. But how can I stay when she pushes me away day by day? I just don't know what to do. Do you girls see a problem here? I am the typical nice guy who wanted a chance with his best friend, but his best friend doesn't want to ruin the friendship. But at the same time, She is pushing me away and she said she is afraid afraid of letting me in closer because of what her ex did. I did tell her, I'm different because my love for her makes me care dearly for her. I can't get over her either. I'm confuse and I need feedback on this situation. We get into fights because I get jealous. Our conversations are fairly weak now. It used to be great when she was "single", But now she's pushing me away but at the same time she wants me to stay. HELP!

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Modeling full time or getting a real job?

So I'm graduating soon and I got a job offer. During college I used to model part time, but I missed a lot of classes that way so I can't do that with a job. But I also got to see really interesting places for free. It's...

Anonymous

(30-35)

So I'm graduating soon and I got a job offer. During college I used to model part time, but I missed a lot of classes that way so I can't do that with a job. But I also got to see

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Relationships

My boyfriend slept with my friend while I was oversees doing volunteer work. I love him so much I can't think straight. Do we work this through?

My boyfriend and I had been dating for 2 years. Things were getting very routine in our relationship, 2 years of dating had felt like 10, and I always wanted to be more sexually active then him (we were only having sex...

ShamblesMess

Xper 3 Age: 38

Dating

Should I be Jealous or worried about his friend?

My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because he was having a hard time getting over a relationship of 5 years where the girl would constantly cheat and hit him. Even with that we still love each other and are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Why is it wrong to hate, despise, loathe reality with a huge passion? To hate the way things are, that can't be changed? I having to accept and deal?

Okay sorry, my main deep issue about this anger problem is I am filled with so much regret, there are many things I wish I took seriously earlier and took action upon earlier, things I learned to accept and deal with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

My husband got so much more attractive since we first met?

And it makes me feel insecure. Don't judge! We started dating in high school and he was kinda a bit nerdy and I liked that. We both went to colleges in the same town, he got in with a academic scholarship and I got in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Did my now ex boyfriend break up with me for selfish reasons?

My now ex after 7 1/2 months broke up with me because he since he's graduating in December, he doesn't know what will happen to him after graduation. His career will take him literally anywhere in the country. He said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Post divorce connection, am I right to steer clear of this guy?

He's the first guy I've been talking to since my divorce, and it's been quite a while until I've been ready to do this. I really really like him, a lot. I want to be in a relationship with him but there's some red...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

I am leaving my crush and I need advice on what to do?

So there's this girl who I have an unreal crush on that works at my job.We've been working and getting to know each other pretty good over the 7 months we've worked together.she is one of those rare girls that you come...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

After six dates girl says she's too busy to see me regularly. Is this a nice way to let someone down or could she really mean it?

I met the girl I'm dating about two months ago and we've been dating about 5 weeks. We've been out six times and by all accounts we both had fun. Last night she called to say that she's enjoyed seeing me etc but she's too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How can I break up with someone when we both are in love with each other?

I've known him for a month, and we were together four times, for hours. Our feelings developed stronger than we both anticipated in such a short amount of time. I talked to my parents about him, of how much I was happy,...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I've known him for a month, and we were together four times, for hours. Our feelings developed stronger than we both anticipated in such a short amount of time. I talked to my

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Guy's Behavior

Working on myself before I get back into dating, good idea?

I'm taking a break from dating but some of my friends and a few guys around me are having a hard time respecting this. I just finished school, moved half way across the province back to my hometown after being gone for 4...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Is it too much to to ask for? I just want to marry my child's father...?

My boyfriend and I had been dating for over a year when I found out I was pregnant. As ironic as it is I come from a pretty religious family. I don't really like the idea of living with someone let alone having a child...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

Why Most Men Don’t Feel Attracted to Women with Plastic Surgery

So you think you need a boob job. With the standard of beauty becoming more and more man-made, who could tell you you’re wrong? Kim Kardashian didn’t have a nose job? She did? Although it may seem having doctors build a...

mitchla

Xper 5 Age: 38

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Society & Politics

How to get the freedom I so badly need?

First of all, I am 19 (should be 20 but stupid birthday's all the way in December grr lol:@) and I still live with my parents. My parents are Muslim so there are strict rules and yaddayadda. We moved to a new city that...

dreamergirl94

Xper 6 Age: 31