Search Results: leave him or give him a chance

I found and did research on this man I bumped into online. He is legit and safe to say a very kind person... we are virtually alike and he was overwhelmed when we saw each other on cam (we both thought we were attractive haha). He studied in one of te best universities, has written multiple articles and I can easily find information about him... I declined when asked to be his girlfriend and told him to give me time to truly know who he is and eventually meet up. See how it goes. We are so alike it is a bit insane! He said he is more than willing to wait. It somewhat took me aback he would ask me so quickly to be his girlfriend. I asked why and he said that he had a rush of emotions suddenly, but he understands perfectly and will wait. I'm home on sick leave, things could change when I start back to work, but is it normal for a man to ask to for a woman to be his girlfriend so quickly? What does that say about him? He has had a bad love life much like I have (I was abused and I told him this). Want to give him a chance and see.

Before i left my group of friends full of guys
I dated one of my guy friends his name will be N-guy
Me and N-guy had a off start before we officially dated
He liked me but i didn't at tht time (2011) i rejected him

I liked him but he didn't at tht time (2015) he rejected me

Then finally we dated (2019) we both liked each other

But after 3 months we broke up we agreed to be friends but thats not what I'm upset about

You see before we dated on 2019,
on 2015 when i liked N-guy people in our friend group told me to stop liking N-guy i was told that we would be an unstable couple and would never last a week if I dated him." I was a bother" towards N-guy

However on 2018-2019 before we dated, our whole friend group told me things like
"Oh u should date him"
"You guys would be good together"
"Give him chance"
"You used to like him"
But i thought we would be unstable?
"But that was agesss ago its good now"

So I thought yeah maybe it was, so i dated N-guy that promised me he would be with me forever and would told me tht i have full control in relationship
(I was naive)
when later on i found out he doesn't like me anymore the whole group did a plan to make me hate N-guy so i would break up him... to save him the trouble of being the bad guy

N-guy would say things like
- "Shut up"
- "Omg your being annoying play the game
- "I feel uncomfortable with u
- "Yeah (myname) go away no like u"

When N-guy told the group his plan it didn't work so he basically broke up with me on the 30th April on the phone...

The group of course told me
"You made N-guy feel this way"
"YOU TREATED WRONG"
"You bullied him thats why"
"Hes no longer interested in u"
"Your such a bother"

N-guy became meaner towards me which everyone in my group became meaner to me

I tried fighting back and joke around like them but i was told to be a bully tht doesn't take their jokes well and should shut up

Thats how my group got "toxic towards me"
Was it still right to leave them?
Did i deserve it?