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This guy online was into the cannabis industry. I didn't think too much about it or care. Says he doesn't do drugs on his profile or smoke. He's cute. He's in the dispensary business. He sells or "delivers" weed to customers. He thought about selling mushrooms but decided not to. When we talked he would always say he's packing up things and would have white things on his fingers and because he was packing boxes. That it gave him a euphoria feeling. Never stated what the white stuff was. We meet. He wears the same thing twice on the two days we hung out. He paid for my food and cooked for me. He would smoke big blunts about 2 times with me. Smoked cigarettes. Still had his exes stuff in his car and home. Stated he got them a long time ago. Has two phones because of his work. Says he's trying to change himself. When he drove me around he speeds and almost got us into a crash. He drives high. Got pulled over from the cops just randomly. Despite all of that you look over it and at the end he says he likes you. He doesn't try any sex with you. Then ignores you for 4 days saying he's busy. After you confront him, he says you're irrational and unhealthy. In the end he ignores you again. Would you still chase him? He's a kind guy and smart as well. He goes to school for psychology.

i want to block him from everything without him knowing.
because obviously i'm doing it to finally be over him forever. which i finally feel like i am.
but if your actually over someone then you dont need to block them but i just dont want him in my life anymore... but i dont want him to know that

i really hate that social media connects exes even states apart.
should i just do it?

im even seeing someone new but casually
i just hate that my ex thinks he has so much power over me and i dont need his toxic energy in my life anymore but i dont want to create drama

(so confused)

I've been together with my boyfriend for 2 years. I knew he was best friends with his ex. They dated around 2 months when they first met. Since that happened like 10 years ago, I didn't really pay attention to it. Up until over the course of 2 years, she was showing a lot of fishy signs and red flags here and there. I don't want to go too detailed but, it's obvious that she still has feelings for him.

I trust my boyfriend and it's not about him. It's clear for me to see that he doesn't have feelings for her. He doesn't find her attractive anymore & doesn't care about her feelings. Couple of his exes told him the same thing. She still has feelings for him. He just doesn't care if she has feelings for him because she's getting nothing out of it. He thought it was okay to keep her around just because of that. Since, they've known each other for 10 years, it is a long friendship.

I had a talk with my boyfriend about this situation. Problem, she asks him out "alone" a lot. He would go if he's bored. That makes me really uncomfortable since he's hanging out with this girl that has feelings for him. And they had history! She doesn't like me because of that. If that was me, he said he would be questioning a lot & won't be very happy about it. He would want me to cut him out. We concluded to cut her out. If they keep in contact, she would just cause issues. In other words, she has feelings for him, wants to hang out with my man alone, & diss me.

He doesn't care about her & completely fine cutting her out. He actually think he should because now that he think about it, she was a problem with all his past relationships. He said he was being oblivious but mainly, he doesn't care about her feelings/what she felt about him.

I do feel guilty because he is doing this for us. It's not in my nature to do something like that. He's known her for 10 years & that's a long time. But, I am very happy he made that decision. But I feel bad :(

They've known each other for around 10 years. When they first met, they had sex but it didn't work out so they decided to remain friends. He was really young back then. I trust my boyfriend fully and I know he is not attracted to her since long ago. He had couple serious relationships before me. My boyfriend loves me a lot, no doubt. The issue is, his best friend is very FISHY! Even he told me himself that all his exes was never a fan of her.

When we first moved in, she would text my boyfriend to go out on weekends at night. He tells her I'm coming, she would disappear, and cancel the plan. She did that for 2 months almost every weekend. It took me awhile to meet her. My boyfriend was being oblivious and saying maybe she's busy got other plans. She has never once been warm to me for 2 years and clearly she does not want. She even refuse to add me on Facebook until my boyfriend told her to. I was furious and told my boyfriend that she's not liking us together. He told me that if I trust him, what's the problem. He DOESN'T CARE if she likes him or not. If she does, too bad for her. If she doesn't, great. But I am agitated and angry inside when he tells me that he's going to hang out with the best friend. She is always the one that asks him out first. She would take my boyfriend out to meet with her friends that he doesn't even know. Recently, she only asks him out when I'm at work during the day. It's obvious to me she's making sure that I'm not with him.

I tried over the years making initiative to break the walls with her. Pretty clear she doesn't want the 3 of us to be like family. I'm getting agitated also because my boyfriend is being totally oblivious and doesn't believe me. She on the other hand, keep on asking him out without me. He thinks that maybe because we are two completely different people so she doesn't think we would get along. I think she's pissed that he doesn't look at her that way and very jealous of how much he loves me. What should I do?