Search Results: was i too pushy

My girlfriend received a flirty text from a guy "friend." Did I handle this correctly?

This guy friend of hers has been texting some flirty stuff to her in the past and I have already talked to my girlfriend about him. Before, I told her that it's alright if she wants to keep friends like that but to not...

ChrisTorez

Xper 4 Age: 35

Relationships

My boyfriend majorly takes me for granted... How can I stop him doing this?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 & a half years - we're both in our 20s although he's 5 years older. From the start, he was very open about not wanting to feel "trapped" as his ex was very overbearing and pushy...

babybxx

Xper 2 Age: 33

Flirting

The guy I like e-mailed me yesterday saying we should keep in touch after the semester is over, did I respond right?

I was like "Yeah I agree! (but did not give him my phone number, facebook or personal details). He responded immediately!! with a smile and then I sent him an e-mail the next day asking if he was taking any other courses...

writing_essays

Yoda Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

How to make the pain go away?

I was with my girlfriend for 4 years. We always had great times together but there was room to grow on my part, I was very insecure and I was pushy. I really worked hard on myself and everything was going great. We talked...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is this sound advice in trying to get closer with this girl?

Some background first: She usually responds to all of my messages, but hasn't this last time. Maybe just swamped with work, given end of the semester, and her jobs. It's been almost 4 days since I sent it....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Does he like me? What does he want? Why won't he just ask me on a date?

I don't want to look and feel stupid telling him how I feel if he doesn't actually like me as well, but I have to say something to him because I'm over not knowing what he's thinking! Every time he sees me he's all...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Are we more than friends?

We've known each other for about a year but have gotten pretty close in the last 3 months or so. We've always been flirty and we drunkenly had sex a little over a month ago. Nothing really changed aster that. We never sat...

embet213

Xper 4 Age: 36

Flirting

Does this sound too awkward/weird to a guy?

There's this guy & we both like each other, I wanna ask him what his plans are for Thanksgiving to see if we could hang out or something (hoping he'd get the hint lol).. If I sent him a casual "so what're your plans for...

wrrw0115

Xper 4 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

Girls, I have a friend with social anxiety that I like and I need advice?

So, I'm a 15 year old guy. There's this girl I like with social anxiety that lives 4 houses down from me. Her sister and mine are best friends, so I don't want to mess up and make this awkward. She is 1 year older then...

Ltgabe2828

Xper 4 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Guys, If A Girl Says Something As A Joke And He Doesn't Respond (Continue Further)?

Hey, guys! So, last night, when I was texting this guy, who I've been casually seeing, the conversation was going pretty well. Until I said something stupid and he never replied. To be fair, I was joking but... I think...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How do I reject guys?

I don't know why I get ask out a lot or get confessions when I'm a quiet person. Yet I had guys ask me out but I don't know how to reject them still. I'm not big on confrontation and I try to reject them nicely but some...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Is this a game? why do guys play games? it's sick?

i've had a few dates with a guy and it went quite well.. we got on really well and he was honest from the get go... he was even a little bit too enthusiastic etc and would text me and give me a lot of attention... he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Dating someone 8 years older than me... will it work out?

I dont want to go into too much detail but we basically have been seeing eachother for a month or so. We haven't got a label yet and I really don't know if he is planning on. Making us official. Im not a naggy/pushy kund...

champagnesenorita

Xper 2 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Any ideas on what to do?

So here's the situation. Talking to guy on whatsapp for 3 months - introduced by mutual friend and details passed on. Couldn't meet sooner due to bereavement, life circumstances etc. Built up a great rapport, talking most...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Any ideas about this guy?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

Think a friend may be upset with me.. Help?

Long story short, we've been pretty good friends and have been hanging out a lot this semester -- thing is, she's been emotionally unloading on me a lot more than I tend to do with her. I really do care about her though...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Does I'll let you know mean what it says or is it a no?

Me and this guy have had some fun together but not had full sex yet. He had gone a little quiet so I asked when he was free. He said it would have to be the end of the week and he'd let me know. I then worried I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is it normal that a guy pushes for sex on the 3rd date?

Hi, need an advice... met someone and we had a good time, but I feel that he is just after sex... he has mentioned that it would be time around the 3rd date, but I've known him only for 2 weeks or something... I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Does he see me as a kid/Should I ask him out?

Last night was supposed to be the best. I had a Halloween party with my college ballroom dance class and had two costumes. I was also supposed to ask someone out. Firstly, my first costume was perfect, everything...

sugar95

Xper 6 Age: 31

Dating

When should I setup a second date?

I already mentioned something we could do for a second date at the end of the date and she agreed, but I didn't workout the details. This was Sunday, when should I mention us going on a second date to setup the details?...

red324

Guru Age: 37