Search Results: we are not in an official relationship

Why do I keep losing my temper with her?

There is a female that I work at the hospital with. We are both nurses. We have been talking for 7 months and I do really care about her and she seems to have very strong feelings for me. We havnt made anything...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I be vulnerable with him?

I used to hang out and have sex with this man, never near an official couple. I stopped talking to him with the excuse that he had starting dating someone exclusively so I wanted to respect the relationship, but I've...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Question about age gaps in relationships, what do you think of them?

So I'm 14 years old and I'm good friends with a 24 year old guy. He's a little different but we always hang out together and play videogames or binge watch stuff together. It's not an official relationship but by...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Break up before moving away?

I've been seeing a guy about 9 months now, and we could never take it a step further due to the fact he would be leaving early next year to live in a different state. We decided it would be easier to stay together and not...

tweedleeee

Xper 4 Age: 36

Why can't I find a boyfriend?

I'm 16, a sophmore in high school. Looks wise I guess I'm pretty average. People tell me I'm pretty but i feel very 'eh.' Guys occasionally will ask me out or DM me or something but I'm never interested in them. Anyways,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I met this guy whilst away and I'm left confused?

I have recently returned from holidays where I met this guy and found out we have a lot in common including the place where we live. Over the couple of weeks whilst we were away we continued to get along better and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He wants to be exclusive but wouldn't make me an official girlfriend, what does it mean?

I have been seeing this guy for some time and we spent a lot of time together, now he wants me to agree on being exclusive however he never said anything about being in a relationship with me. Is this normal?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do I really love my boyfriend? (I know it’s long but please read it)?

So me and my boyfriend friend met in like late October over Snapchat, I know typical millennial. We made it official Nov. 8th and since then, we’ve talked everyday. We have FaceTimed, regular talked on the phone, and...

SlimmJayy

Xper 5 Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Did he just want sex? How can I stop feeling bad about myself after what he said about me?

I “dated” this guy for a little over a month. He was sweet and charming in the beginning. He would call, text and FaceTime everyday. He made things official, I met his family and close friends, etc. I really liked him. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How long is too long?

This isn't about what you think it's about. I want to know when it would be considered too much wait time to make it official. Is there an ideal time to commit to a relationship when both people have been dating for a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is a good amount of time to tell someone you love them?

So I've been seeing this guy since mid August of this year and we just recently became official in November. I can already feel myself falling in love with him... I feel like its okay to already be falling since we've...

ClementineG

Xper 4 Age: 33

If he has no feelings for me & other options, why is he being so desperate, he texted then after 15 min. w/o an answer he messaged but on snap?

After us not talking for almost 2 weeks (the last convo ended positively), he messaged me at midnight a few days ago, I ignored it but he saw on my snapchat that I was out with friends drinking. Then earlier he sends me a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he being so desperate, he texted then double messaged but on snap after 15 minutes of me not answering?

Anonymous

(30-35)

How long before going official? How long is too long to wait for a guy that won’t commit?

I’ve been kinda dating a guy for the last 8 months. Our situation is complicated because we’re kind of long distance. We dated for two months, I moved away, and we see each other for a weekend once a month, keeping in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My ex wants me back, but I've got a new boyfriend?

My ex broke up with me last year, saying he wasn't ready for a relationship, but not long after he started dating a new girl. Just before he started dating her, he was messaging me saying that he still had feelings for me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it unusual to be 23 years of age and never had a girlfriend?

I have "dated" but I never had an official, exclusive relationship. I never dated at all in high school; only after. My dates were with people I met online, in exception to one. This one girl was 4 years younger than...

NotGivingUp23

Xper 3 Age: 31

Flirting

While playing this game with the host he said?

The host told him to go and marry nun as a joke ( because of some music he didn't listen to) And he responded " nun? Wait.. so you think pastors wife is going to be a nun.. wait and see, just wait and see, ... hhmmm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a smart, well-rounded, kind, sexy girl was into you, why would you choose to fuck an uglier girl or a "but-t (h) er-face"?

**I posted this in another sub but realized this one may be more appropriate** If you met a girl who was all the things mentioned and edgy like you, so basically a girl with a good personality, sexual appeal, etc. (I...

Anonymous

(30-35)