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Milo is 23 years old and deaf. He has a 7 year old niece named Luna that he cares for because his brother abandaded Luna after her mother died. Milo has anger issues due to his past with physical abuse and he used to spank Luna, push her, and even sink his nails into her arm when he was really angry.

One day he told her that he was sorry and she signed she forgives him. Milo hugged her tightly then started sobbing uncontrollably. Even going as far as getting his snot on her clothes. Ever since he made a effort to be a better uncle to her and went to therepy for his wounds.

Milo is 23, deaf, and a convicted felon due to his past with hacking into computers, creating internet viruses, and getting into fights.

As a child, Milo was abused, bullied and felt wrothless because of his treatment and the fact that he was born deaf.

After his brother's girlfriend died after giving birth, Milo became the main caregiver of his niece, Luna. Milo spanked Luna to the point where it hurt for her to Walk while he was in a fit of rage, smacked her hands, pushed her, and even sank his fingernails into her wrist when he was very angry with her. Milo was also a self-harner and cuts himself.

Evenenully, Milo tells her that he's sorry for being so terrible and taking his anger out on her. When she hugged him and signed that she forgave him, Milo sobbed uncontrollably in front of her.

Then the both of them went to therepy, Milo learned better ways to deal with his anger, made effort to deal with his past wounds, and never put his hands on her again.

I know everyone is both. We don't have Neanderthals walking around anymore.
But if you are even 55% majority on one, which would you choose?

There are intellectual, cerebral, or very self-controlled types who have a harder time cutting loose, expressing themselves, feeling free or playful. They think about the consequences of actions more. Sometimes that is because bad things have happened when they do let go. And sometimes they are quite repressed, or repressing something that may not be as harmful as they imagine it could be.

And then there are people who quite often let their emotions or anger get the better of them, and wish they could be more self-contained, less impulsive, or more logical. They find clarity later, once the intense feelings have subsided, and then realize they eratic, on a temporary but powerful feeling.

This is the kind of thing I'm getting at.

I am definitely both. For sure. I think I feel less doubt or guilt than I used to. I'm trying to combine logic with passion, and for the most part, that is working better than it ever has in the past. But I still wish I had more fantasy, imagination, and abandon than I do. Those things can sometimes get one in trouble, but as I have said before, I do love a little debauchery and really just feeling what feels good. Those moments, or times, of drawing outside the lines, I really like them. I wish there were no repercussions, no risk. Sometimes I love that feeling of acting crazy, acting without thinking.

It seems to me that the line between self-control and recklessness can be... quite narrow.

BTW: GAG IS ACTING BUGGY AND INVERTING TEXT IN QUESTIONS AND MYTAKES. SO THE PARAGRAPHS ARE OUT OF ORDER, GOING BOTTOM UP, NOT TOP DOWN. IF IT DOES THIS AGAIN ON THIS QUESTION, GOOD LUCK READING IT. THUS, THE NUMBERS.