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no, this isn't because we're going to break up someday. i dont plan on giving up what we both have, but why do I feel like stopping him from doing this is the right thing to do? I know tattoos can be covered or something if a person wants to get rid of it but still. he has zero tattoo on his body right now. my name will be his first tattoo if he ever goes through with it. maybe somehow i feel like he's going to regret it (even though we're still together), and then maybe end up blaming me.

he said he's getting it a few days from now from his cousin who's a tattoo artist. he's planning on having it on a body part where it can be seen easily. I asked him if he's sure he wants to do it and told him that getting a tattoo is pretty serious (especially as his first time). then he swore that he's certain about it. he probably plans on getting other tattoos some time in the future.

I don't know if im overthinking this.

If you have before, are you both still together? Do you regret doing it?

She was 17, he just turned 21, and they loved each other in every meaning it encompassed, 20 years later, she's 38 he's 42.. he gets some tattoos, a new truck, taste in music changes dramatically, and his style of clothes is also way beyond what she's known him to wear in the better part of their time shared with each other. all of this changing he's done, she can't help but wonder, if maybe there is a female other than her that he may be changing her out for next. She gets on their wireless phone account and discovers page after page after page of texts to one particular number, after a little investigation, she finds out that her husband is texting a 23 year old girl... She is crushed..
When she tells him she knows about the number and the reasons he had been spending hours everyday after work locked in his shop, he scolds her, yelling and appearing to show no regrets in regards to what he's done, nor does he seem to have any respect for the sanctity in all that she thought they had.. what should the woman do? He is all she knows and she has felt the exact same intense love for him at year 20 that she felt when the first day that year one began. how can she make him see that he is about to cause irreversible damage to them and their two kids?