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So this woman 26 who's a massage therapist and this guy who's 49 who's a firefighter we're dating for 8 months and she finds out that's he's been messing around with an 44 year old flight attendant through social media (a woman around his age he claims he doesn't talk to because he's set in his ways but she finds out and confronts him and he has nothing to say but kisses her and tries to change the subject and all the sudden after that the woman she confronted him about her social media is now private. So for a month the 26 yr old doesn't hear from him until she gets a call from her obgyn that she has trichomonas an STD that cured and calls him and tells him on the phone from his end there's nothing but dead silence in a dry apology so she hangs up and weeks later he doesn't call or check up on her period so she deletes him from social media and few week's go by she misses him and decided to follow an friends advice and creates an fake social media account just to be nosey and he finds out it's her so she looks on the other womans page that's 44 that he was talking to and the woman opens up her page to drag her because he told her too. Question is who was in the wrong? The 49 yr old man or the 26 yr old. By the way she knew where he lived and worked by didn't go by his place if she really wanted to do something but didn't
Was she in the wrong or him
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So this woman 26 who's a massage therapist and this guy who's 49 who's a firefighter we're dating for 8 months and she finds out that's he's been messing around with an 44 year old flight attendant through social media (a woman around his age he claims he doesn't talk to because he's set in his ways but she finds out and confronts him and he has nothing to say but kisses her and tries to change the subject and all the sudden after that the woman she confronted him about her social media is now private. So for a month the 26 yr old doesn't hear from him until she gets a call from her obgyn that she has trichomonas an STD that cured and calls him and tells him on the phone from his end there's nothing but dead silence in a dry apology so she hangs up and weeks later he doesn't call or check up on her period so she deletes him from social media and few week's go by she misses him and decided to follow an friends advice and creates an fake social media account just to be nosey and he finds out it's her so she looks on the other womans page that's 44 that he was talking to and the woman opens up her page to drag her because he told her too. Question is who was in the wrong? The 49 yr old man or the 26 yr old. By the way she knew where he lived and worked by didn't go by his place if she really wanted to do something but didn't
Was she in the wrong or him

I was seeing a guy that I met on Tinder who was the most nicest and sweetest guy I ever dated. He was also very innocent, he's only ever been with one girl, he is very cautious about every decision he makes, he strictly doesn't want to drink, smoke or go to parties. I thought it was cute how he stood by his morals and I respected that. I am not a big party girl or a big drinker but I wondered if our differences would be a problem, because I do drink occasionally, I don't mind parties, and I know when the rules can be bent. We ended up meeting a few times just to hangout and the third time we met up, we had sex and we both enjoyed it. After seeing each other a few more times and talking about really serious things (mostly coming from him), I asked him if we were exclusive. l didn't mean to rush anything, but I was confused as I was still actively on Tinder. He said that is what he wanted, but he said he wanted me to get tested for STD's before we became exclusive. I thought this was weird since we already had sex with protection, but I thought it was a fair request so I did get tested (I am clean).

Anyway, before my results came back, we had sex a second time and I went down on him. After the sex, it was clear that he wasn't okay. He was upset that I went down on him, in the chance that I had an STD. I didn't really think about it when I did it, cause I figured we already kissed anyway? and before I did it, I showed clear signs of what I was going to do and he had plenty of time to say "no". When he told me that, I did not react well cause I was embarrassed by the rejection and was angry because he kept bringing up the testing. It made me feel like he had a certain assumption of the kind of person I was, basically we got into a fight (over text) and he took it very personally and to heart. After we cooled down we talked it over and he said that "He needed space and time to think." Its been 5 days since, and I haven't heard from him. Did I lose him?

My friend and I met 3.5 years ago. He was in an open relationship. I was just coming out of a bad breakup. We were our own people with no strings attached. His girlfriend dumped him, and he was heartbroken. I was there for him, but I avoided getting attached, because we were just friends, he was moving out of state in a year or so, and I was not going to be a rebound. We were having sex as friends, we both got tested fairly often, and we never fought about anything. Our dynamic was not all sex. He moved away, I thought I'd never hear from him again. Instead he flew me out to see him, and we maintained our friendship. I wondered which way this was going. We talked a few times, he said he had strong, loving feelings for me but as a close friend for life that he would always be there for. I was happy with that direction. Last year, I decided that I was looking for more. He was not an option, so I saw other people. He seemed to not be happy about that and we pulled away a bit. When we saw each other we didn't have sex, but we still enjoyed each others company. Last month I texted to say hi. Out of the blue he started talking to me in a way he never had before, and then he asked me to be his girlfriend! Needless to say, I was shocked! I didn't think he felt that way about me, and I had moved past that as ever being an option. I told him that this was something we should discuss in person. He agreed, and I booked a flight.

Monday I asked him if he would get an STD test.

He hasn't been tested since January, and he's had 4 partners since then. Two days later he completely blew up on me over it. He started ranting that he's never once asked me to get tested, and he cannot accept my lack of trust and paranoia in requesting that he get tested every time we are seeing each other. I should just trust that he can pick good people. I told him that STDs don't care about trust. It ended in him saying he never loved me in any way, I was just a good friend. What just happened?