Search Results: turned off by shyness

Can shyness be an appealing trait?

I am a little shy, but not in an aloof or rude sense. I am very friendly and smiley and I know I am quite approachable. I have a good number of friends as well and I know how to talk to people. I can even make myself...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do you think a relationship between 2 shy people can work? And are guys turned off by shyness?

So I've been dating this guy and we are both a bit shy. I think we click really well but sometimes I get shy around him because I like him. And he can be shy too. Do you think shyness is a bad thing when it comes to a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Is it likely that he thinks I would be willing to chase him? If yes, how can I turn that around?

I was talking to this guy I have a little crush on and I noticed he was very arrogant about his intelligence. I definitely found it to be a turn off. The first few times I tried approaching him it was a little awkward. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he really interested in a relationship or just being sweet?

So, last Saturday my mother and I went to PetCo to get a few things for the dogs. When I walked in I went over to the doggie cookie area to look for a nice treat for my Yorkie-poodle, then I asked the guy a the register,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Masculinity and Femininity: The Ideal Man and Woman

I should mention a few things before I dive into this article. These are my opinions, based on my observations and conversations with people. When I say ideal, I mean nobody is perfect. I mean just being the best...

shadowscapes

Xper 3 Age: 34

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Sweets, Confidence, and a Socially Awkward Gal--Please Help!

Never have I ever been in a relationship in my life and at times, I can be very...naive...when it comes to catching hints of attraction. BUT, there is a guy that caught my eye instantly at my school (I'm in a tech) and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can you get over shyness?

I'm very outgoing around my friends and people I know, but I find it really awkward when in like a bigger setting surrounded by people I don't know. So I try to avoid talking to the people I don't know unless they talk to...

jaydev422

Xper 5 Age: 31

Flirting

How to keep flirting without getting intimidated or shy?

It has been a while for me to be out on the dating scene. I'm talking to this guy who is a few years older than me. Since I have not dated in a while and I haven't gone out with someone 7 years my senior I'm afraid to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do Guys Find It a Turn Off if You Stutter? y/n

My classmates invited me out for lunch last week and this was literally a convo a had with one guy. Nick: “What year are you in?” Me: "Third" Him: “What degree are you studying for?” Me: “English. … An English BA”...

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(36-45)

Do you feel disappointed in yourself when you act shy?

there is this cute girl I've talked to before after one of my classes (a week or two ago) that I wanted to follow up and talk to again. but when I left class today she was walking behind me by a 10 or so feet. I turned...

Anonymous

(36-45)

When trying to get a girl?

Okay what are things that I can do that will show the girl that I am a capable man and not a little boy. A lot of the times I tend to be goofy/funny and the same time I think that comes off on my dates along with a good...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long a girl's interest/wonder lasts?

I'm talking about a pretty specific case here. Back in high school, lets just say that I had quite a lot of girls who had a crush on me. I was kind of an introvert, but still pretty social. Well-known around the school,...

bazzim

Xper 5 Age: 35

Meeting a guy abroad and then probably never seeing him again...is it worth it?

I am temporarily working (in Wales) right now and I'm staying with my aunt and uncle. There are always people inside the house who are busy fixing it because it's brand new. I don't really talk to them and they don't...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do I even have a chance???

i am a 28 year old virgin ,low self esteem and Extreme shyness High school I was afraid of people judging me and talking about me to an extent I turned down Many beautiful and or great personality females just to...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Outgoing--but terribly shy around guys?

I am almost in my mid-twenties and I have never been in a relationship and I have no experience with sexual activity with the opposite sex. I feel like I missed the "average" ages for learning about being in a...

Anonymous

(36-45)