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I’ve been dating this guy for about a month and a half. There’s this girl who is older than him but used to be his roommate. I know that she liked my boyfriend at one point and had told him about it. I saw his phone conversations with her and he is asking her if she is happy in her life, and telling her to text him when she gets home, etc. He does favors for her often. Is this cause for concern?

I am a girl who did lots of self-care more specifically body care. I used natural stuff for my face, hair and body. My skin is oily and acne prone so I had to take extra care of that. I used to work out little. And double chin runs in my family so I was doing facial exercises and it was controlled.
So I had a major exam that would get me into college which required me to study a lot. So in order to focus on the exam, I decided to stop doing self care for about 2 months. As a result my face started getting more oily and filled with dirt and my face got covered with lot of pimples and black marks. And I gained belly fat due to my bad sitting posture. My double chin started to come out and face started to get a bit fat. I thought once my exam is over I would get back to my old ways.
So my exam got over a week ago. And I have all this free time now. I will start to go to college soon too. Maybe I am lazy or tired, but i don't wanna care about my body anymore. Ik no one would find me attractive and won't get asked out, but I don't think I would care that much. My family has been asking me to take care of myself. I don't know if I am just depressed but I am just laying around like a sloth eating junk food and checking my phone.

Husband has best friend (girl), messages her constantly day and night, has his phone glued to him. "Is a relationship over all based on seeing messages when asked?, he asks when I ask to see the messages." I want to trust him, but he denies for me to see his messages (3 times) asking me that same question over and over. He has full access to mine, I have nothing to hide. Instead of saying "yes, go ahead" keeps telling me, I put the ring on your finger and I don't care if they like me I'm married to you. I feel as if he is seeking others attention.