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So I've been in a ldr for 11 months now, we're both 21. In the last few months my boyfriend and i speak less frequently. Its at the point where we no longer text unless I text first and even then sometimes he takes forever to reply. In the first few months the he'd text me first and if he didn't hear from me he'd lool to find out why. Ik he's busy he works and goes to college everyday. And when he's not at school he works 16 hours a day. I also know that recently he's gotten two jobs. Thats why I feel bad about confronting him. But at one point our several calls a day turned into once a day and those have now become once a week at most. He can go days, weeks even without speaking to me. And when I call him he just won't pick up and will take days to return my call. When I confront him he says he's just busy and that he swears he loves me he's just occupied. Sometimes he tries to blame me and say I'm ghosting when it's clearly him but he'll say let's make it work coz he loves me. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm scared he's losing interest despite him telling me he loves me more than any girl in the world. He says i love you but his actions don't.

Ok so, this will probably be long so i apologize... but I really need some help with this!
My boyfriend and i have been together on and off 9 months. Last time i saw him was Sunday night, but im busy with school all week so thats why we couldnt see each other as often as we'd like to. But anyway, he usually always texts me cute good morning texts and asks. What im doing throughout the day. And says things like i love you😘😘😘😘 or I miss you. And calls me sometimes multiple times a day just to check up on me. And if not that, he'd always call me at night and we'd fall asleep on the phone together. But this past week has been strange... I didn't hear from him for two whole days, and then when i called him on the third day i asked why he never calls or texts, he said he will never do it again. Then he called the next day but it was super brief andto the point... never texted me either. I always had to initiate it. This whole week I've been the one initiating all texts and calls and it just seems like he doesn't care anymore. Like he says he's busy and always out and woth a lot of people... i get that, but before he never had a problem at least giving me little texts throughout the day. Now it seems like i could go a full week without hearing from him if i wanted to. I called him again today and i was upset and him. He said the same thing and that he will make it up to me. I feel like if he's losing interest in me, he should tell me instead of stringing me along like this! I'd rather know the truth than to be fooled behind my back. Do you think he was actually that busy all week or is he just losing interest in me. Its not like he's even got anything to be busy with.. he doesn't work or go to school.. while i do both and i still can make time for him. If u read this all, thank you. Any advice?😔