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I’m 20, & I have an older Brother who is 26 we both have different fathers and since them my mom has remarried. my brother does not keep in contact with his father but I grew up a daddy‘s girl so my father & I’s relationship is very close.

When my brother speaks bad about his father my mom laughs.. but I got a quote tattooed on me that says “I carry your heart with me” because it reminds me of my father. he is in prison and I have not seen him since I was 7.. and when my mom saw it she said “she needs a tattoo that reminds me of her as well”..

My moms new husband is not a good provider, and can't keep a nice paying job.. and convinced her to put the last of their money into a towing business that put them thousands of $$$ in debt.
Recently I started seeing a guy who is 33 and when I tell my mom about how he takes me shopping, treats me well, sends me money for my books etc she will say things like “ That’s good, I’m glad you found someone like that, I wish I would have been smarter about the men I dated when I was younger, I wish I would could do those things but it’s all good, I’m happy“
I’m a bio Major and I don’t work.. so I rely heavily on my Student refund checks.. but my mom AND stepdad asks me for money EVERY WEEK.. even my older brother sometimes.. he dropped out of a school, I am going to school to be a doctor because I want to live a comfortable life.. I don’t want to struggle like them..

I noticed that she never asks my brother for money and if I say no I feel bad. My brother lives with my mom and stepdad while I am in college.. and she calls me crying asking for money for help with THEIR rent.. because my stepdad is inconsistent with his income, she pays mostly everything by herself and my brother does not help.. I feel bad for her, but I Also feel like it is not my job to make sure that she is not struggling and has what she needs. Do you think this is a case of jealousy or something else?

I’m asking because I watched an episode of House where that was a major part of the plot. I can’t imagine what I would do in that scenario. So I thought it would make an interesting question.

Basically, the kid was born with an intersex condition called genetic mosaicism, and even after hormonal tests, doctors couldn’t determine which gender the kid was more likely to feel as when they grew up.

The parents were asked to pick a gender for the kid. The parents had “genital normalizing surgery” performed on the baby, and the kid was given hormones to try to make sure that they went through puberty for the gender that they were assigned.

I can’t imagine having to make that decision for someone. It seems so impossible. Yet apparently it happens. So what would you do?

I give birth soon and shockingly he was more supportive emotionally when I was 1 months pregnant compared to now. I called his phone telling him about my upcoming doctor appointments he doesn't seem to care at all, he seems annoyed. When he picked up the phone he asked me "what do you want" and after I explain he says "ok is that it?" and hung up on me. I asked him if we're getting an apartment together and he doesn't seem interested in that either. At this point I think I'm going to finish my last few months of pregnancy alone and won't let him be there for the birth or in her life. Keep in mind when I do this he'll cry to people saying "she was spiteful and didn't let me see my first born born" that's how he operates. I've went out my way to give him chances and even stayed with him when he was abusive and talking to other women.