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so today when my boyfriend was dropping me home, he told me about what happened at his gym. he said "omg babe, remember that Asian guy that kept copying what i do at the gym?" and i replied "yes.. what about him?" and he said "omg it was so hilarious. he was with his girlfriend this time. she's a little nerdy Asian girl. like she's really little and looks very nerdy. anyway, i was just resting and there's mirrors everywhere so i was just looking while my boys are training. through the mirrors, that Asian guy was doing weights and he accidently dropped his weights and she full jumped. she full got scared. it was so funny. shouldve seen her reaction." and then I go "so you were staring at her?" (coz he's into short Asian girls like me so i asked him that). And then he went quiet and looked at me and got kinda pissed off and said "why do u have to ruin the mood? i was trying to tell u a funny story. everytime i mention a girl, you automatically think i like her. whats wrong with you?" and i just went quiet.
Was I right about it though? It means he was staring at her right?

So I recently moved to a new school where everybody treats me like I'm really pretty. I had insecurity issues so I only dated nerdy boys who haven't ever had girlfriends and wanted one. It never would last very long. It was awkward not being physically attracted to somebody who you are seeing, especially when they had social issues where they were embarrassed about dating or they couldn't talk to me etc. It took me a VERY long time to accept this was because I was out of their league. The thought crossed my mind, yet I didn't want to accept it, as saying I'm out of somebody's league is probably rude or unlikely. However, that all changed one day when I dated an attractive man for four months, and then the most popular guy in school for a month. I always hear girls complain about how men are creepy and the ones they like just want them for sex. I realize now that is me. Should I re-lower my standards to get a boyfriend or wait for someone who is on my level?