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Forgive the people around me so that I can't dislike them?

I've learned that no matter how many times you tell people something is wrong for them they still won't listen to you. My sister as well as my ex's new girlfriend who is kind of like a friend didn't believe me when I told...

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Family & Friends

How can I forgive the people around me so that I can not dislike them?

I have learned that no matter how many times you tell people something is wrong for them they still won't listen to you. My sister as well as my ex's new girlfriend who is kind of like a friend didn't believe me when I...

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Guy's Behavior

What might this guy be thinking after all this?

One of my close male friends had liked me for about a year but didn't have the confidence to tell me until I was brokenhearted over my very recent ex who had screwed me over. He was the most supportive friend ever during...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

Can we be friends after all this?

At the beginning of the school year, I met a guy in my new friend group who seemed indifferent to me (however, he did in fact have a huge crush on me). And while we did have chemistry, I thought that he would never return...

Anonymous

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Dating

Does he like me? Help, young and confused?

okay so im young. and by young. I mean I am a freshman in highschool. I know the "you need to focus on your studies" stuff but im just really confused. so I like this guy and we have been close friends for like 2 years,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

My male best friend is being so harsh to me?

We have been EXTREMELY close for the last year. We tell each other everything. We were very attracted to one another and we work together so we were too scared to make moves on one another. He gets back with his cheating...

drowningcreek

Xper 6 Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

Help on getting my Ex back?

My girlfriend of ten months left me three weeks ago from tomorrow. While ten months seems like a small time frame, we fell so damn deeply in love after I saved her from herself. (She had a hard childhood, causing her to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Thoughts? Am I too desperate?

I broke up with my ex 8 months ago as we were very short with one another and it was painful- he wanted to talk it out, but i ran... We were together for 4 years. After we broke up, his parents divorced and a lot of life...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

What do I do? Did I lose a best guy friend or can our relationship be salvaged?

I liked a guy in the fall and I told him. He told me he just wanted to be friends for now because he wasn't over his ex. I got over him and we became super close. Anyway jump to late April and he asked if I wanted to go...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why a girl acts this way with an ex?

We had 8 years together, almost got married. Had some problems last months (no cheating) and she broke up with me. Its been 2 months since the break up and a month since last time I talked to her. She would keep...

Psiconauta

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

It's my first time dating and I don't know what to expect?

So I met a guy on an online dating site, we live in the same town so he has already asked me to meet up with him - I checked him out on Facebook and I realized he is friends with a group I used to hang out with, so I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

This guy fools around with his ex then vents to me about it. I don’t want to date him, but the whole situation still angers me. What should I do?

So there’s this guy, we met about 6 months ago at a new school I just moved to. After a couple of weeks he put his number in my phone and we started talking and became really close. He was the first guy to ever call me...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls: We've been good friends for almost a year, she wanted more. We began to date. Out of nowhere she's retreated very quickly and won't talk to me?

Iv been friends with this girl for around a year, we met at work (she has since left). We got on well and became very close over the following months. We have the same interests in food/drink/music we go to the gym...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend is very good friends with his ex-wife and it bothers me. Do you agree that they're weirdly close or am I just being over-sensitive?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and have lived together for about seven months. Six years ago, he and his ex-wife divorced after twelve years of marriage. He told me that he didn't want the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and have lived together for about seven months. Six years ago, he and his ex-wife divorced after twelve years of marriage. He

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Dating

Do you see a future in us?

Since my ex and I have broken up he got with another girl I found out he told the new girl he wanted to be honest and let her know he's still talks and hangs out with his ex... when we see each other we kiss etc.. I also...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

What should I do about my ex, cut him off or no?

So my ex broke up with me about two months ago. The main reason is pretty much invalid now and guess what we're not back together. Big shocker, huh? Anyways, he basically pleaded for me to still be in his life and he kept...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Do you think sometimes the one we end up with isn't as much about lust as it is about picking the one who you are most compatible with?

I have had a rough past with relationships. The last one was especially rough when the girl I was with for 6 years ended up cheating on me and having a baby with her ex - and now they aren't even together! Thats a side...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me for almost a month now, however we still have communication through text, chat and would see each other 1-2x a week?

Hello, I'm very new here, just wanted to share & get some advice. I dated this girl for almost 4 years, she was my best friend, I was her first boyfriend, we enjoyed each others company and were comfortable with each...

Anonymous

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Girl's Behavior

My best friend is afraid of me getting close to her?

TranceSai

Xper 5 Age: 33

I will make this short. I met my best friend at my job. We have become close friends to a point we can talk about anything. I'm a guy (21) and she is a girls (20). I am there anything

I will make this short. I met my best friend at my job. We have become close friends to a point we can talk about anything. I'm a guy (21) and she is a girls (20). I am there anything to support her. Our experience? I told her that her boyfriend was using her for just sex. She denied it and later saw he really was. Then her second boyfriend, they moved into sex 1 month later, which I told her was too fast. the guy ended up breaking her heart. But for some instances, I ended up falling in love with her after that break up because we got closer from it. I told her but she said she doesn't look at me the same way back. She is afraid to lose our friendship. That hurt me a lot. So now, 1 week after the breakup, she found another guy. But this guy was going to use her for sex and I know because i talked to that guys ex and she said the same thing. Now, my good mornings to my best friend are weak because she only expects them from the guy she's dating. What I'm saying is, we acted like our friendship was like relationship, but now, her emotions of friendship goes to the new guy. I told her, I want to leave because I don't have a purpose here, when I have to watch the girl I like, love someone else. She told me she needed me and want me to stay. But how can I stay when she pushes me away day by day? I just don't know what to do. Do you girls see a problem here? I am the typical nice guy who wanted a chance with his best friend, but his best friend doesn't want to ruin the friendship. But at the same time, She is pushing me away and she said she is afraid afraid of letting me in closer because of what her ex did. I did tell her, I'm different because my love for her makes me care dearly for her. I can't get over her either. I'm confuse and I need feedback on this situation. We get into fights because I get jealous. Our conversations are fairly weak now. It used to be great when she was "single", But now she's pushing me away but at the same time she wants me to stay. HELP!

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Break Up & Divorce

Still crawling from the wreckage?

Hi everyone this is equal parts rant, venting my spleen and asking for advice so if I bore anyone or come off as self absorbed I'm sorry but I have to get this off my chest. I split with an ex that I have a child with a...

Anonymous

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