Search Results: getting closure

Asked him to get engaged?

My partner and I were together for 3 and a half years, he had a lot of insecurity issues which caused a lot of arguments, I looked past all the controlling sides of him hoping it would change, eventually it did, he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would he email me? I need closure...

If a decent and nice guy said that he would email me after my confession to him, would he do it? He's really nice or do even nice guys say things in the spur of the moment for he wanted to escape from that situation? Or...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Refusing to give closure?

So after a long relationship that I was in that seemed to be less than what I thought, We've broken up and there is a few issues that I feel should be cleared up. I don't want either of us taking baggage or hangups to...

drews12

Xper 5 Age: 47

If your crush got married, how would you feel?

I thought I was doing alright Getting over a guy I have a crush on. I resisted the urge to contact him for a while, then something will trigger off that urge. It has been like a see-saw , ups and downs. Today I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What was he thinking breaking up with me, initiating No Contact and now coming out to see me?

I am so confused. After breaking up with me (I still don't know why) and four months of no contact (he initiated)...he decides to blindside me by showing up at a community event to see me. After about 30 minutes of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ex-Boyfriend Cheated and Wants to Meet. Should I Confront Him?

My ex-boyfriend and I haven't talked in about 3 months. We were together for 5 years, when he said that he wanted to take a break. During this 3 month break period, I found out that he was cheating on me while we were...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you get over somebody when they won't give you closure?

I had my best friend of 13 years lie, use me, and betray me. He led me on so he could take me for all he could while he was deployed for a year. He made me promise to not do anything about our future without him since he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he texting me because he feels sorry for me? (really long Q)

My ex was a total jerk after our break up (and I didn't handle it well, I was very emotional) but he always stressed the fact that I was a really good friend and he wanted to stay that way, I said "no" and didn't talk to...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How does one simply just let go?

Hey Guys, I have been broken up for 9 months now. We were together for about 8 months, but seeing each other for a year and a half. He broke up with me on the phone (we were in an LDR, I was in town the day before)...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is he still in love with her?

Me and my boyfriend have started looking for houses to purchase together which brought up the topic of his ex girlfriend whom he was with for 7 years (ages 18-25), they owned a townhouse together, had a joint account and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I like him, I'm sure he knows. Question about this guy?

(BACKSTORY) V I wouldn't say I have been officially dating this guy but we have been hanging out and we talk a lot (usually everyday or other day and he initiates phone calls to me) We had a gap where we didn't talk...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I love him but I know it won't work, how do I be honest and tell him I want to have closure and move on?

When your scared to tell someone the truth in case you hurt them... Then your scared you'll regret making the wrong decision in the first place... We mutually broke up a month ago after a 4 year relationship and to tell...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How long should it take me to get over an ex?

I last saw my ex early June... the night I also happened to get laid off from a job I only had for 2.5 months. The next 2 weeks my ex communicated with me very little even though we had parted on good terms. He didn't...

LJHam

Explorer Age: 55

Why Won't He Give Me Closure?

I fell in love with my best friend (A guy) of five years early this year. This was awkward for me, but rather than let it build up and get my hopes shattered, I was open with him about it. He was surprised and we both...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

How do I get closure?

Hi, I've been going through something recently. I was close with a singer I supported a lot, and he turned around and hurt me. It all started by getting a message from his manager saying if I didn't stop sending the guy...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I have told him so many times that if his feelings have changed towards me that he needs to tell me!

Bare with me because this is going to be long (really sorry) but I need to try to explain everything. So I started dating my first boyfriend in late oct. 2011. We made it exclusive and official in Jan. Everything was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he have to do that and be so immature?

Me and my now ex boyfriend ended it. Over what I'm not even sure we got into an argument and I asked him a question.all of a sudden I get an "we're done I'm serious this time. I'm done with this."he said before if I...

Staystrong6

Xper 5 Age: 32

Relationships

Break up because future plan conflict, can we get back together?

I had been with my boyfriend for about 2.5 years. We hardly had argument. We felt like we were a good match. He is a leader type and I'm a follower. During 2.5 yr, we fought 3 times. Every argument happened when I...

Anonymous

(36-45)