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So my boyfriend and I have been having trouble with the limits of talking to the opposite sex in our relationship. We have been dating for about 8 months so we're still learning about each other and such.

This weekend we were away together with friends too and a guy I used to hook up with a year or so ago snap chatted me (i'm not sure everyone knows about snap chat but it's basically you send someone a picture and you can write on them but you can only see them for a couple seconds then they delete automatically). He was with a bunch of people I knew from high school and he was sending me videos of all them hanging out since we all went to high school together. I didn't think I needed to tell my boyfriend at the time because I didn't think anything of it and I hadn't talked to the guy since my boyfriend and I started dating.

Then the next night, a girl my boyfriend works with drunk texted him and I had never heard of this girl before but I could tell that she had a crush on him from what she was saying. And I was jealous of course but I just told him to remind her that he has a girlfriend and he was with me at the time so that she would stop texting him.

The next day, my boyfriend was looking through my snap chat and saw the snap chats from that guy I used to go to high school with and hook up with and he naturally got angry and said I should have told him about it sooner, but I didn't really know I needed to and I couldn't show him the snap chats because obviously they delete automatically.

Basically, I know it makes him uncomfortable for me to text other guys especially ones I've hooked up with and I don't normally talk to the guys I've hooked up with at all but I had a lot of guy friends in college because I had guy roommates and such so I don't want to have to stop talking to all my guy friends all together. And my first boyfriend of college still calls me occasionally and stays in touch even though we haven't dated in 6 years or hooked up in years because we're friends, but I can tell it still makes me boyfriend uncomfortable but I don't know what to do.

And I understand he needs to communicate with people he works with, but if a girl who has a crush on him is drunk texting him, even if he works with her, is that crossing the line?

What do you guys think? And this can relate to same-sex relationships as well.

Foreign white or black vs American.

I ask because a lot of black men do not say kind and loving things towards us and about us. You know the words :b*tches and ho*s" come ti mind and it hurts. There is less pride due to the fact that African pride was stripped from African Americans during slavery, such customs and linguistics were erased over the years that many black men today enjoy the European beauty more than their own.

African men keep their pride and do not stray from it, they tend to be the most educated, traditional in family and sex life...meaning that a lot are virgins..African are the most educated peoples in America right now.

Now white males, I understand that some black women are very interested in white males, you have assimilated to their culture to be successful in America, and some of you are just well..interested. American white males tend to like what they see in the media and American media presents the black woman horribly and could do way better. If you see Jerry Springer in the morning by a flash you understand what I am talking about.

European men except for Russians, are not bombarded with the racist media like American white men are and do not hear all those silly stereotypes. I have been to fore gin councils where Italian men and English men go to and they see me as a woman first not a loud screaming thing...and I am so quiet ..American men ignore me...I mean white. I get hit on by black men, yet in an ober - sexual way.

I have learned so many things about my own heritage through strong, beautiful, and dark African men and at places where some Foreign men are..I have experienced the genuine and unprejudiced kindness from sweet and pale European men.

I am just saying that if America doesn't favor us,...well maybe we can date someone who does. I now am learning European languages and wearing African jewelry and I feel pleases.

Which would you choose...poll.