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Hi, I have a good Internet friend (well I consider him a good friend but not sure if thats how he thinks of me anymore) whom Im friends with on Facebook and talk with on a daily basis. And despite that we've never met in person, we have gotten intimate (by video chat) on several occasions and still do from time to time as well as managed to remain close for the past 3years now. I don't necessarily consider him my boyfriend but definitely a good friend I happen to have done a lot for throughout the course of our (3yr) relationship. Recently, I've come to notice him unavailable to chat on FB (where he previously was always online). I discovered its becuz he created another FB account to which he has transferred the majority of his friends... EXCEPT ME! I automatically assumed tht maybe that account was for his 'local' friends but found that not to be the case considering he adds strangers he meets on xbox as friends to this new FB acnt daily. So I jokingly asked when (and if) he was going to add me to which he replied he didn't WANT TO and now feels "pressured" just becuz I asked him! I then admitted how it hurts my feelings to think he wouldn't want to add me which seems now to be creating a rift between us as to why he's so opposed to it? So my question is am I being irrational or is he just being a jerk? Would anyone elses feelings be hurt if their good friend said they didn't want to add them to their new FB account? I understand people have different accounts for different reasons (4instance he uses Twitter for his gaming clan members - which I've NOT &would never ask to be added there since Im not affiliated) but can't help that it hurts my feelings to see him adding strangers he meets (online - just like he met me) on this new FB account (where he spends all his time now - having deserted his other one) and yet refuses to include me after all I do for him. So any other perspectives on this will be much appreciated. BTW- Im older than him as he's in his mid20's

Yesterday night, I was out with my brother and my mother for dinner. I get a call at 9ish saying that he is at a bar with his old tattoo artist. She happens to work at the tattoo place right around the corner from us. I tried to meet up, but he said he was trying to "work out a deal"/catch up on old news. They walked to the house for their cars at 10ish and as I was sitting on the porch on the phone, they start talking about his tattoos and said she had a good time. They are old friends he says. He and I were talking about the tattoo ideas. He tells me that she is married, is about 40, and oldest kid is like 19. Looked at her profile. Her mom just turned 50, no 19 year old kid, and a picture of her making out with another girl. She is gorgeous and knows it. Flaunts a lot of pretty pictures online.

Tonight, he has his brother over and they went to see a movie. I declined going being I was taking care of my. We meet up at home and he freaked out for a millisecond about his phone and then went into a drunken slumber after we had sex. It just hit me that it was odd about his phone. Went out to the truck and saw his cell phone charging (he also has a charger inside of the house). Here is the... guess you can say transcript while I am not around him:

10:41 AM
Him: Yo!

1:43PM
Her: Yeah who is this

1:58
Him: It's ____

2:02PM
Him: Seeing if you had a good time last night.

6:01PM
Him: Did I say something wrong?

7:15PM
Her: No been working hun sorry. Yes I enjoyed myself.

7:21PM
Oh, my bad.
7:30PM
What time are you getting off?

**Movie Starts

She calls at 8:09PM and the call goes on for 55 seconds.

9:53PM
Him: Just got out of the movies. what are you doing?

He calls her at 10:12 and call lasts for 48 seconds.

Told him I was going to get a bite to eat at home at 10:15. Two texts followed after that saying "food is at the house" and "come home". Sounds to me like she rejected him and he just "settled" for me.