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Before he graduated a few weeks ago, I confessed to my longtime crush. I have a Whisper account, which is kind of my outlet for venting (I don't have many friends that I trust haha). I've always been a little worried he'd see them being even without putting an exact location in, it still notifies neighbors when you post. But I never took it too seriously until this one guy replied to 3 of my whispers. I asked him how he found me, and he said my name just kept popping up. I live in a very rural area, so... I was talking to another guy who also had the same name and last initial as my crush. Unless he lied about his last name, it obviously wasn't him, but it still freaked me out. What were the odds of that? It pretty much boils down to IF he has a Whisper, he's seen my posts and probably figured it out. I didn't say anything bad, but I still don't want him to see them for obvious reasons. Is this a legit concern or am I being paranoid?

So this guy let's call him Adam started talking to me to get me and one of his mates lets call him Shane who I kind of had some sort of crush history with, he wanted us to be alright with eachother again because at the time things were awkward between me and Shane, so since about the start of this year me and Adam got really close we had small arguments but we always sorted them out, because we both wanted to be alright with each other, anyway I lied to him for a valid reason- to protect him and he couldn't take it and he pushed me away so after a few arguments and make ups and arguments again we just decided to call it quits, because the conversation became a bit dead too. So then after 3 months in an exam he wishes me luck and that same day I overhear him talking to my best mate saying that he found it awkward but he wished that he can start talking to me again. And later that night I get a message from him saying hi, we literally carry on talking all weekend non stop, we always had the chemistry we just never really acted on it though he's been calling me special and saying he wants to spend quality time with me, but I just feel like he's just going just leave me hanging again, he's changed-hes much calmer around me and he smiles he never really used to smile. I can sense something but Im not quite sure. Can anyone help in figuring him out?

I know im not over thinking stuff but me & my ex dated 2 years ago. we only went on 5 dates but i know apparently he was in love with me & i really loved him too so much & cared. We didn't work out it was long distance relationship but everytime i tried to get back with him he would play games & never took me seriously. He would ignore me, make me feel dead & he knew he hurt me but kept doing it again, he would say sorry but break his promise. i wouldn't hear from him for 3 mths first then he will come back for abit then be gone for another 4 mths. when i was depressed, hurt he would act happy & distant, ignore me, make me feel like im not worth it & rub other girls in my face. I never ignored him before i was always respectful so he did it first. He played mind games. Also on fb he would disrespect women calling them bitches/hoes i knew he meant me as well. He never really thanked me for anything i did for him & just lied.

So when i had enough & was really done with his bs, manipulations he would beg me several times to take him back. i almost did but my parents, friends were all pissed off & told me not too. it can get worse & he sounds abusive. I knew they were right for once because i had a bad feeling he would hurt me again & break promises so i decided not too. He even said how he would meet my parents & talk to him. Then he would look for other girls & if they dont work out he thinks he has control of me still. so when i told him we both tried to work it out but its not working, no matter how hard it is we need to move on. he started to creep me out. this was last year in April & he said if he lost me he would do something crazy go to jail, hospital, etc. he would get into fights with guys & show pics of his bloody fists on fb to show off.

i lost all my trust in him. what i noticed is he got his 2 friends to keep talking to me, harassing me, seeing whats new? if they feel i have a new crush on a guy & am happy they keep msging me.