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Let me state first of all that personally I DO think it’s okay for guys, including those with SO’s, to like other girls’ selfies on social media. And I would also like to clarify that I’m not talking about selfies of girls that are borderline pornographic, you know the kind I’m talking about. The kind I am talking about in this post, the ones that I think are harmless, I’ve included an example of (a guy I know’s fiancée got super mad at him for liking this pic of me on Instagram, and she made him unfollow me). The meme above is something a girl I know, who is married, posted on FB, but I don’t really agree with it (the part about selfies, let’s just ignore the stuff in the middle for now). Now, this girl is VERY insecure, is overweight, and is on her second marriage because her first husband only married her to get his Canadian citizenship, and as soon as he got it he started cheating on her. Now, her case is a bit extreme in terms of her insecurity, but I’ve met quite a few women, many of whom are very attractive, who get very jealous and irate if their husband or boyfriend, who, by all appearances seem to be very devoted to them, likes selfies of other women who are attractive. Do they have a point? Is liking other girls’ social media pics, or even just looking at them in their IG stories, and indication that they are attracted to these other women and are thinking of cheating? Or is that a bit irrational? I personally think it is. I think if a woman has a big problem with her man doing that, it’s a sign that she’s either very insecure, or there may be some underlying problems in the relationship, and deep down she’s afraid that he’s attracted to other women and might want to cheat. If so, I think those issues should be addressed in the relationship, because that level of distrust and jealousy, to the point where a man can’t like another girls’ pictures, is very unhealthy. But, that’s just my opinion. What do you all think?

I absolutely love men. I would never cheat on my husband but guys are just so lovable to me, and I love being around them and talking to them. How many of y'all feel the same? I hate it so much that a lot of other women gave us a bad name cause now so many guys are afraid to be around a girl incase they get accused of something. I would never do that but there's no way anyone would know that. I have had some guys start trying to hit on me when they knew I was married and loyal, and all I'd do is delete him and stop talking to him, but in general I just really wanna hang out with a group of guys. I think it's because over half the time they don't care what you do, like if you accidentally burp they would probably laugh or do the same thing. My mom an best friend are the only women I know that would do the same, other women seem to think they have to keep up some sort of front like they never have gas lol.