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My current b. f. are constantly fighting-almost every day now. He's sweet, handsome, chivalrous to a fault... but he's just soo sensitive. If he hears a minor criticism or even something he totally misinterprets not even DIRECTED at him... he goes postal. He throws tantrums. He calls me names. He accuses me of things that I didn't do. And there's no amount of reasoning, reassuring, or calming him down that can stop his extremely abusive verbal attacks. Sometimes he'll wear himself down, but it takes anywhere from hours to DAYS while I'm sitting here being his punching bag (not literally) until he feels better. When he calms down, I reiterate that that's NOT cool to just blow up on a person like that and here we go again... When he realizes that it wasn't even aimed at him? He totally forgets that he said anything. Like, really, doesn't even call it an "argument". Like, wtf? So I just went through that verbal abuse for what exactly? I've tried learning "his" style of arguing. I've tried arguing back, doing exactly what he did to me back, but... it doesn't make me feel good as a person and two... it just makes things worse. How can I stop this cycle?

If you thought that talking about music a lot was a bad habit of mine 😂 ... yea apparently I love to talk about myself. Like i’ll let you have the floor BUT when you ask me something about myself 🙃 you won't be getting the mic back for a while. I know i talk too much and i have a hard time stopping myself. Occasionally i’ll ask something about you in return but its probably just me using it as a breather or a reason to talk about how i relate to whatever I asked you about. I know... i’m bad lol. But at the same time i want to date someone who can also hold a convo. HOWEVER i need for them to be a tad bit more of a listener than a talker so that we balance eachother out without annoying one another :) i mean i’ve dated talkers before and lordy we were fighting for the floor. We kept cutting eachother off and it was pissing me off. I would purposely dodge one friends call cause he talked too much 😂 I felt claustrophobic af cause he’d never let me get a word in and he’d yap for like 2 hours straight. I’d mute the phone and cuss and cry 🤣 One of my friends told ne that i was only allowed to call her if i didn't talk about myself for that whole convo... yea we didn't say friends much longer after. But hey its her fault for always saying “I have nothing to talk about, tell me about your day” (hehe greenlight!). Me writing this is just a summary Of how much i talk haha. Anyways, what about you?
#FeelFreeToList #CallingAllTalkers #ListenAndBeTalkedToDeath #ChatterboxBabies

I have been together with him for 3 years. We went through MANY ups and downs together and currently in a LDR. The past few days I've been thinking of breaking up with him because I think he deserves better. Also, I think I am the one with the issues here and I'm talking about - jealousy, insecurity yada yada, you name it. Honestly, I'm scared of losing him, because I'm still so in love with him and I know he feels the same way too.

It's just that lately we have been constantly fighting, even the smallest thing. But by the next morning we would apologised to one another and carry on with our day. Then before our routine night calls, I would start having weird thoughts again, thinking he's with someone else.. and I start questioning him if he's cheating on me, which made him upset and started raising his voice asking me why would I asked such stupid question.

See. I'm the one with the issue right? I know I sound so stupid. I love him but I am just not good for him. And I don't know why am I like this. What if I made the wrong decision? Please help.