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Dakota met a very attractive, married man.
She has known him approximately 4-5 months.
When she first met Rick, he only wanted a one night stand. Dakota declined and realized this hurt his ego a bit. She didn't care, she was after respect.
They flirted very much after that, and at one point Rick massaged her shoulders before even knowing she was only seen as the one night stand.
Every time they saw each other, their eyes both lit up , and they smiled at one another.

Dakota has learned this man is unhappily married and even so, they still gave each other these desirable looks. Dakota never gave in though and Rick attempted many times.

Then Dakota realized, she was starting to like this man more than planned... so she spoke her honesty. "I think I'm falling for you, Rick."
He had said nothing to her in return until they saw one another again and Rick responded, "When you said you were starting to get feelings, that was when I started backing off, I don't mess with feelings."
Even so, he still smiled at her, still wanted to be close to her.

On NYE, Dakota ended up getting drunk and sleeping with a random guy in the basement, with whom Rick had heard the action as he had arrived at the house. His protective instincts kicked in immediately, and he was about to go in the basement, but Dakota came up just in time and met everyone at the table. To which Rick spoke "Are you cheating on me?" in a supposed joking manner.
Later in the night, they kissed. It wasn't forced. It was gentle, and Rick groaned a bit. They kissed a second time. After that, changes started appearing in both of them.
He still wanted that "one night stand."

Instead, she told him she'd just like him over for company one night and he arrived. She opened up further to him certain life events. The look on his face, almost looked painful, stricken with guilt. He left early, and rubbed the hair on Dakota's head she flinched, he smirked and did it again playfully.

What would you do if your SO called you by their ex's name out of anger? This woman was a whore--to put it mildly. She thought she was 'all that', had multiple tattoos and allowed many 'professional' photographers fuck her and ended up pregnant with another man's child while married to him. She took their only child with her and he hasn't seen his daughter since. We had a very minor disagreement about work and the next thing I know it had escalated to him shouting at me in her name. I was mortified and beyond disgusted and pissed. I've never stepped out on him , and have felt extremely uncomfortable being around other men! We've been together for two years, he's never done that before! I haven't let him touch me since. I'm on the fence about how to deal with this, I've sensed for months that he sees her 'in me' though we have very different backgrounds and personalities. We absolutely do have similar facial features, (nearly) same color hair, eyes, mouth (of weak Irish Heritage, could almost be sisters if you didn't know better). He swears he doesn't, that I'm nothing like her, yet he jumps on my case for things that make no sense to me and then, after two years, last night we were having an argument about a work project, when he insulted me for not realizing he was the authority on the subject, then yelled at me in her name. I haven't slept in the bed with him since and won't let him touch me, or given in to his flirts. I don't know if I can get past this, it's been two years we've been together now, and we've promised to always have one anothers back but the last few months have been unbearable, all in her name. I'm so furious and hurt I can't see straight, much less think about being affectionate with him.