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So obviously, there's this guy. We've been friends for awhile, & after he had a nasty breakup over Christmas break. Well we were still close, & I kinda liked him, but he was struggling with the loss of a 2 year relationship that didn't end well, and needed space. Well after move in day in Aug, we started getting closer again. Hanging out a lot, walks, the little diner type place on campus... my feelings grew. I wasn't sure if it was mutual, but because we're apart of a lot of the same groups & were so close, I was seeing him so much that I was about to start making things crazy awkward. I asked one of our mutual friends who's basically his sister, & she said that while he was still having relationship anxiety, if I felt like we needed to talk about it, that we should. So we did. I got an awkward smile & "Okay", with a text a few minutes later saying that I took him off guard, but that he isn't looking into a relationship with anyone in anyway. The usual cop out. But like I said, he is actually struggling with relationship anxiety, & I feel like we've actually gotten a lot closer. We've gone to the coffee shop together almost every day since, we eat together a lot (usually w/ a group), occasional text, he cracks at almost all my jokes, the body language signs (with the exception of the hair), Snapchat story feature, today was the first day we haven't see each other & hung out in over a week and he texted me with a work question... so basically is there any chance that it wasn't a cop out & he really, truly isn't ready?

Oh, & this is probably a bigger deal then I'm making it out to be, but side note, I'm fairly certain his brother likes me?

There's also this other girl & they do stuff together, but she's several years older then us, usually is the one to initiate the hangout, and I think likes this other guy. But they do go get food some or an occasional movie, & he messes with his hair around her (But not the other signs). He insist that they're just friends, so I don't know.

I've known this guy named Drew for almost two years. We actually work together (that's how we met) and he's been a sweetheart to me & there was chemistry between us from the get go. We had to remain friends at the time because we were both in serious relationships. I broke up with my boyfriend 6 months ago due to many issues. He broke up with his girlfriend 4 months ago for many issues as well. We got closer as friends and our feelings made it to the surface. We really like each other... A LOT but we both don't want relationships right now because we both want a break from the drama relationships can bring and to work on ourselves. I've asked Drew if he has feelings for his ex and he said he does not. The only thing he has is anger towards her because of the crap she put him through. It's the same for me with my ex. He put me through a lot of shit, I was angry at him for a while but now I'm over it.


However, when Drew and I had sex... It was amazing. We held hands during and after. We cuddle afterwards and he doesn't want me to leave. We both have admitted getting attached to eat other. Outside of the bedroom we are basically inseparable. We see each other three times a week (outside of work; he works in a different department so I don't see him anymore at work) we text and call each other every day. We actually go on dates in public with each other. We both know that we like each other. But today... Well first off I have the flu. He actually came by my house and brought me Gatorade, water and soup. I was amazed because no guy has ever done this for me. It was a really sweet gesture and it warmed my heart. It was 10pm and he had to get up early for work tomorrow but he didn't care. He wanted to bring these things to me and didn't want to wait. I live with my dad so he knew sex was not happening and respected that. When he left he gave me a kiss on the forehead because he was worried about catching the flu. So... Does he like me?