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So over the years i would talk to my friend about my dating life and she would do the same thing. She would give me advice and sometimes I wouldn't listen to her advice and she thinks it was being disrespectful.. when i would ask about her she would respond but doesn't ask me me. She seems like she's giving me the cold shoulder.. especially when i'm trying to completely move on from a breakup/relationship. I know i sometimes talk a lot about it but whenever I talk to her these days it seemed like she's annoyed. I talked to her about it before and explained it was disrespectful and just dissapointed from the sounds of it. she's the type of friend who would give advice harsh and sometimes in depth/ doesn't make sense sometimes

Hi there. :)

So, my best friend is going through a bit of a rough spot. She has a super sweet boyfriend, and this is his first girlfriend. (We're all about 20 years old.) My friend (we'll call her Joyce) tells me all sorts of things about her life and little things about her realtionship that only besties tell each other, and I'm glad I have her confidence and I never want to lose her trust. However, I'm in an awkward spot because her boyfriend texted me yesterday a long email about Joyce, where he talked about how distressed he was that she was in a bad spot and how much he wanted to help, and for me to give advice. I don't really know her mans that well, and my ego is stoked he came to me for advice (though it makes sense, since he knows I probably know her best)
I don't want to be a snake, and I tend to turn into one when Im between girlfriend and boyfriend and giving them both advice (this has happened before lol and it turned on me pretty quick, and I don't blame either of them) Anyways, I don't want that to happen again. But I'm in a tough spot. Best friends before besties baes though... why am I so confused? Here are my options:
1. Tell him things my best friend has told me in confidence that he probably has a right to know but I don't have a right to share
2. Tell Joyce he texted me, show her his texts and say 'see, those things you thought about him were wrong, he really wants to help!" and she can help me formulate a reply to him.
3. Give him a generic response with generic advice
4. pretend I didn't get the long email.

I'm not white but was curious on what it feels like. I have seen some black guys in here post about them wanting a white girlfriend and there are so many YouTube videos on people of color giving advice on how to get a white girlfriend or boyfriend. Did you know about this? There are books, videos, articles and such on this.
I came across this by what I saw on here.