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Me and my boyfriend been together for 1 year and 2 months
My previous relationship was messed up - I was going out with him for 6 months when I caught him with another girl. I found out this girl is his "main chick". They had been dating for 3 years. So this means im the "side chick" so yeah he has been cheating on me this whole fkn time. This ended 3 years ago
So I started having trust issues with men ever since then
I still have trust issues to be honest and I think its affecting me and my current bf's relationship
Lately, everything he does, I have been accusing him of cheating and trying to attract women
For example, he has been training at gym for 8 years and always uploading photos of himself at gym
I know this is his thing and to see his progression but lately I keep thinking that he's training at gym and uploading photos to attract women and trying to get their attention
I was going mental about it and kept nagging him how he's trying to get other girls attention and stuff like that
And he said to me:
"you got freakin issues. You need to get over your trust issues and your past. Im not the same guy you dated that messed around with you. Im a different guy. I have never cheated on you. If i wanted to, I couldve done it ages ago. I wanna be with you. Im trying so hard to be patient but one day Im going to click. If you keep doing this and can't trust me then how is our relationship going to work? I trust you with all my heart and you dont even trust me. You need to see a counsellor or talk to someone close to you. If you keep doing this, its going to ruin our relationship. Please fix yourself. I can't fix it for you. You have to fix this part by yourself. If you can't trust me, then dont be with me. "
Am i right to be upset that he wants me to see a counsellor?
do you guys think i sound crazy? 😔
Does this mean he thinks im crazy?