Search Results: making me feel guilty

Why is my ex trying to hurt me after he dumped me?

We were having constant little fights before the break up since he was on vacation in some other country. He was supposed to bring his parents here and he said their visas didn't work and so they're stuck here and his mom...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why are my parents so forceful and rude?

My parents want me marry a man. I said NO. They are not accepting my no as an answer. They said I'm marrying the man no matter what whether I like it or not, or want to or not. They just use the excuse "because we are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Live life for survival or happiness?

I recently setup a startup business in jewellery design for my own happiness, where I quit my job as an architect because I no longer enjoyed it and was very depressed from it. Since starting my business, I have felt...

Anonymous

(36-45)

boyfriend forced me to take off my underwear, then cried afterwards out of guilt.. What does this mean?

My boyfriend of almost 4 months always told me he would never force me to do anything I'm not comfortable with. Today, he broke his promise by asking me multiple times to see my bare crotch and pretty much begged me to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Would you feel bad for me if you were her?

My very close friend, a few of her friends, and I were at a park. She and I brought these extra water balloons from a school event celebrating Valentine's day. We were tossing them at each other as she talked about a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Self-Awareness, Self-Discipline, Better Outcomes

The key to achieving better outcomes comes from calmly asking ourselves how we can most effectively make things better , of applying level-headed thought to choose the best course of action. This is rather stating the...

ak666

Editor Age: 45

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Emotional is Weak, Unemotional is Strong

For anyone who finds this title immediately disagreeable, please read on and discover how I define these concepts. Emotional: acting before thinking. Unemotional: thinking before acting. The quality of being...

ak666

Editor Age: 45

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Should you tell your b/f if you hooked up during a breakup period? Is it cheating?

Okay so here's the scoop. I was with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I met him online and we live about an hour apart from each other. At first he was driving to my place a few times a week and everything was great....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Why is he continuing to text me?

broke up with my boyfriend the other day, it just wasn't working It was so boring, there was no excitement and the relationship was just dead and he became more like a friend then a boyfriend, so I knew I had to end it, I...

ilovepizzaxx

Xper 5 Age: 26

My fiance's family hates me! :( What to do?

I have been with my guy for 3 years now. We are both 22. We plan on getting married soon. Maybe within a another year. Anyways, his family , since the very beginning never really liked me. They never took the time to bond...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We kissed. It didn't work out. And now he is flirting with my friend-how to respond?

I have a boyfriend. He has a girlfriend. One drunk night we kissed. He told me he really liked me but wanted to stay with his girlfriend. Told him the same. And we remain friends who see eachother in group situations. Now...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He has trust issues? Or trying to control me?

Okay so my guy has ADHD and he is extremely paranoid to the point he knows my passcode to get into my phone. in arguments he has looked through my texts and other personal stuff. There is never anything there. But...

Scottygal

Xper 4 Age: 33

How do I handle a "relationship" being over?

I want to apologize for the length but I am in a state of incredibly strong mixing shitty emotions. So, unfortunately out of all the first experiences I've had in life, this one is probably the worst. I think I'm in...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Fallen in love with another person?

ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 7 months now and i'm very sure i feel something for him but recently from like no where another guy has appeared who i suddenly have feelings for too. i'm not even certain its...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

When does "just talking for fun" become serious enough to back away a little bit?

My ex and I broke up 2 months ago and I've been trying to get my mind off of him and in doing so I met/am talking to 3 guys. In all honesty, I don't see myself ever seriously dating any of these guys but I know one of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Would you be willing to start a platonic or romantic relationship with a girl who claimed to hate men but it was really obvious she didn't hate them?

In this situation, a really beautiful, genius IQ level, hour-glass figure, funny, kind girl was psychologically, but not physically, abused by older men while she was really young. She claimed to hate men because they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will my ex boyfriend that cut me off completely from contact forget about me?

I know it seems kind of stupid but it really hurts me. We spent over a year together and we made so many memories, we were attached at the hip and he was my best friend and he practically lived with me the whole time we...

Anonymous

(30-35)