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1. I meet a very nice man at the lunch counter of a diner. We have a lot in common, including being lonely single parents and not having family nearby. He mentions a movie he wants to see. I tell him I'd like to see it too and if he wants, to call me. We exchange numbers.

2. We meet a few times for drinks over the next few months, texting sporadically. Explains he's coming off a LTR and very sexually frustrated. Keeps joking about sex. I get defensive at first. He apologizes. I say I'd rather just be friends and take it slow. (Both because I've been hurt a lot and because I'm afraid he's rebounding and might get back together with her.)

3. He's very attentive when together, distant in between. Texts me Happy New Year on New Year's Eve at midnight (I'm out of state at my sister's house) and wants to know when I'll be back in town.

3. The weekend after New Year's, I invite him over to watch the Steelers game cuz I've been travelling for a week and just can't face sitting in a bar for three hours. We end up having sex (he initiated). He has ED. I tell him it doesn't matter and we can try again. We make plans for the following Sunday. He mentions he might move to NYC for work. (2 hrs away)

4. I'm sick - coughing, sneezing, gross! I cancel but suggest the next Sunday (yesterday). I haven't heard from him since. So over a week with no word.

So I've been with this guy for nearly 2 months and I'm a bit confused on what to define it.
1. We're not seeing other people.
2. We went out together on dates at first until he lost his job about a month ago, so most of the time I stay at his and we cook together.
3. We go for coffee, and go out with his friends when he can afford it.
4. His parents know about me.
5. He lives within walking distance from me so meeting up is very flexible... like he will ask what I'm doing one evening, and if I'm free I'll see him and stay over at his. We do plan things on the weekends.
6. We sometimes meet up on my lunch hour breaks.
7. He wants a job where he will be happy and will boost his career, however if he doesn't get one in the next 3 months, he's thinking about teaching abroad for 3 months... it's all very up in the air.
8. We both came out of long LTR's earlier this year. What is this? If he lived further away, I wouldn't see him spur of the moment during the week.
9. We both have admitted at the start we really like each other and we want to take our time together.

What this?